Blk Man Commits Suicide By Cop After FB Post Reveal Beastie Baby Momma K...

 

This story is crazy. This man kills himself because his baby's mother wouldn't let him see his son. Get this, he wanted to be in his child's life. You have fathers that pump & dump; they pump a woman with his seed, and dump the child on the woman. I'm going to post a few of Rachael's comments from my Facebook page:

Rachael Notyaaveragechick Guelle Unbelievable. Smh! You women don't want a good man to be a father....blah. He laid down with a lowlife piece of shit and now all women are to blame. How was getting himself killed helping the situation? If there's a God? Like really? Smh! I wish people would stop having kids with trifling hoes. She will get her justice. You never turn your child against his or her other parent. Even if the other parent ain't shit. Smh!

Rachael Notyaaveragechick Guelle Killing yourself over anyone is stupid. I could understand if he killed her but that's wrong too. I can't believe he left his child behind with that scum. Smh! Never. I would've made her life a living hell. I would've tracked her every move, recorded every conversation. Smh. All I see is two sorry ass parents. Damn shame!

 Another comment from Rachael: They are both pathetic. You never turn a child against his other parent. It doesn't matter if they are good or bad. Smh! If you don't have anything good to say, shut the fuck up.

 

My View: Men, be careful who you lay down with because you never know someone's true nature. It's no secret that some women can be very foul. They use their children against the father because of a personal vendetta. I guess if she can't get to him, she'll get him through his child(ren). No matter your problem against your (wo)man, YOU DO NOT use your child against their parent. I can't respect that at all. People say he took the easy way out, but I don't see it that way. This man was tired of fighting; he was going through this situation for 5 years, and each time he got no results. How much more can you fight? Men, do not take your lives over these foul women. They're not going to be at your funeral; they're not going to paint you as a hero. On the contrary, these women are keeping it moving. Going further, the system will allow these single mothers to take days off to go after child support. This is real talk, her justice is coming. She will never sleep at night, because she caused this man to kill himself. She will have his blood on her hands & once the child grows up, that child will want to know the truth, and I hope the guilt eats at her to where she tells the truth. She needs her son taken from her and made to pay child support. There are plenty of stories like this, and each time I come to the same conclusion: Men need to wake up! Stop going by your sausage and use the brain God gave you! If you don't see yourself with her long-term, don't have a child with that woman. You don't know if she's vindictive, and you don't want that in your life. I'm thankful I don't have to go through this because I have too much to accomplish in life to be saddled with child support for 18+ years. Should I decide to get married & produce children, I'm doing it the right way: Get established in my career/education, meet the right woman, we have real talk, then get married. Some of these men are too stupid to realize that many women are playing them. They turn men against each other as part of a master plan to eliminate the male gender. The reason why some men simp so hard for the approval of women is because they think she'll give him sex. 9 times out of 10, that's not the case. Some of these men need to wake up. If this story doesn't cause men to tighten up, I don't know what will. I read about this and it's very very sad! I saw the FB post the young man put the day before he died. If you look on my news feed page, there's a guy Marvin Cease. He shared the entire post of what the young man felt. If what he said about her has truth, I just don't understand why these immature spiteful women prefer their children to be without their father. If they're wanting to be a father, let these men father their children regardless of what he might have done to you, or what happened to your relationship! Grow up! At the same time, it was selfish of him to kill himself, because now his son is going to grow up without a father. I'll never forget this story. My condolences go out to Derrick's immediate family.

Marrying The Game

Marrying The Game chronicles the life of rapper Game (Jayceon Taylor) and Tiffney Cambridge. They have several children together and are trying to sort out their issues. They were supposed to celebrate their 1-year anniversary, but life got in the way. Now, their relationship status is on hiatus until they can figure things out. Honestly, I don't believe they're going to last because they're having too many issues. Tiffney wants Game to settle down, and The Game has no intention of putting away his rapper persona. If music is how he provides for his family, why can't Tiff see that? She knew/should have known what she was getting into before getting involved with a music star. Music stars are desired by loads of women, some of whom don't care if he's married. Women jump out their clothes to get at her man. I remember an episode where Game and Tiffany had a big blowout over him leaving for Paris without her. Was it that serious? He was gone for a couple days, and would've came back home. It wasn't so much him being gone, it was having a female assistant and not telling Tiff. Call me crazy, but if a man hasn't given his woman a reason to mistrust him, she should be cool with him having a female assistant. He has to establish boundaries, and keep business and personal separate. That's too hard for some men to do because if a woman and man are working together, feelings are bound to get caught because they're so used to being around each other, that it takes one spark to set something off. If a woman can't trust her man to go out of town on business, they shouldn't be together. Besides, she would expect Game to trust her if she went out of town on business with another man. If Tiff wanted to keep tabs on Game while out of town, she could've gone to Paris with him, even if he would've disapproved. There's nothing like seeing for yourself. Jayceon Taylor is a good father to his children, so that should be enough. My thing is, Tiff is trying to change Game into a family man, and I don't think that's what Game wants. He (Jayceon) just wants his lady to accept him as is. They want different things, and that's fine. No couple is going to be in sync 24-7; each person has their own mind and should be free to be themselves around their (wo)man. If you can't be yourself around your mate, who can you be yourself around? I think Game & Tiffney should co-parent, and go their separate ways. Think about it, they can't agree on anything, and they're just not compatible. Tiffney wants The Game to turn down his rapper image, and Game just wants Tiff to accept him as he is. If you can't accept the good & bad about your mate, do them a favor and sever ties. They are better suited for someone who closely matches them.

I'm Blessed=I'm Cocky?

 Let's be real, many people don't like hearing how others are being blessed. Why? Because of jealousy. If THEY aren't on the receiving end of God's blessings, they don't care about others being blessed. I'm being honest. By nature, some people are envious of others good fortune. Some people struggle for their breakthroughs, and others it seems like everything they touch prospers. It boils down to faithfulness & obedience. The Bible says that obedience brings blessing. When I think of blessing, I think of the entire scope of blessing: Physical health, material wealth, etc. When a person speaks of their blessing(s), my first thought is they're cocky. Why? Because they tell everyone how they have this and that. God did this, that, and the third for me. Personally, I enjoy seeing & hearing others get blessed because it gives me hope that I can get mine too, if I stay faithful and obedient. When people receive their blessing, usually they flaunt it as to say "Look at me, I have this, this, and this" Remember show & tell back in school? That's what I get when I see people constantly showing off their blessing. I'm not against sharing what God is doing in people's lives, but many times people do it to show off. You can share what God is doing in your life, but remain humble. Humility is the key. The reason why I say be humble in your blessing is because just like God blesses you, he can retract that blessing if you get beside yourself. Oftentimes, Christians (and others in general) can become enamored with the blessing instead of the giver. Not everyone will celebrate in your blessing. Some people will front like they're happy for your blessing, but get them alone and the hate flies. "Why did (s)he get blessed, why couldn't have it been me, why why why? I can't stand sister so & so, she think she all that, etc." You folks know what I'm talking about. To protect yourself from being a target of jealousy, it's best to remain humble in your blessing because no one likes an arrogant person. In closing, If all a person can talk about is the material aspect of God's glory (that is part of it), then they're showing off. These are people that aren't used to having nothing in life.
At the same time, I do enjoy hearing testimonials of God taking someone from the Pit to the Palace.



Lay It Down

 

We all have that song that lifts our spirits, and improves our outlook on life. For some it's rap and/or hip-hop, others it's that old-school soul/R&B music. This song does it for me every time I listen. The song title Lay It Down (get your mind out of the gutter) helps me do just that, Lay It Down. Lay Down my worries, trouble, etc. What's the use of carrying trouble on your back? It's not going to make life easier for you. In many cases, all that worry you carry on your back is just going to wear you down more & more; until you finally decide to lay it down. I feel like this, if something's out of my control, I put it in God's hands because only he can work it out. That doesn't mean I'm not going to do my part in the natural; I am, but trust God to do his part in the supernatural. You know, it bothers me that some people are too prideful to let go of their worries. For them, letting go is too much like relinquishing control. Many people believe if you can prevent troubles, than do so. To an extent, they are correct because if you see danger ahead, why would you move towards the danger zone? No, you're going to detour around it because you don't want no worries. Most challenges we face are of our doing, so because we got ourselves in mess, it's up to us to get ourselves out. For challenges we face that are out of our control, remember one thing: We live in a fallen world, so at times life is going to be unfair. In the times that life is unfair, you have to Lay It Down, and Let It Go (into God's hands).



Keep Your Head Up

For everyone who's feeling discouraged, because they believe they won't accomplish their dream(s), read this amazing encouraging word from Tanya Ware (Facebook friend):

 

Have you ever wanted to do something really great? Maybe you had a big dream; maybe you believed you could start a business. Maybe you wanted to lose some weight or go back to school. Now, it’s been so long. You tried and it didn’t work out. The loan didn’t go through. The medical report wasn’t good. Now, the “never” lies are playing in your mind... “I’ll never get well.” “I’ll never get married.”... “I’ll never accomplish my dreams.”
 Today is the day to get your fire back. Today is the day to get a new perspective. The Creator of the universe has already set the completion date for the dream He’s placed in your heart. And, just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean that it’s not going to happen. God has already lined up the right people, the right breaks, the right answers. Everything you need is already in your future. Now you’ve got to shake off the doubt; shake off the discouragement. Whether it’s been a year, five years or fifty years, what God promised you He still has every intention of bringing it to pass. Keep standing, keep believing, keep hoping and keep moving forward. Get your fire back and let Him fulfill every dream He has placed in your heart!

 



Why?

 

 

 

Some years ago, Jadakiss dropped a song called Why. He touched on a lot of social issues. This is MY version of Jadakiss' hit song, Why?

Why are some children born with the odds stacked against them?

Why is your family the main ones to hurt you?

Why get married, if you're going to cheat on your spouse?

Why do people smile in your face, then talk smack behind your back?

Why does it seem like the wicked are prospering, whereas upstanding people are struggling to get by?

Why can't black men and women get along?

Why do some people suffer with disabilities?

Why are prisoners treated better than homeless folks on the street?

Why does it seem like the black community leads in negativity, rather than positivity?

People are quick to quote Jesus, but don't live what he preaches about

Why do some women have an entitlement complex?

Why do men and women badmouth each other, then expect to be treated like Kings & Queens?

Why do people complain about one bad break, when they overall had a good start in life?

Why is a man considered a simp if he's respectful to women?

Why do people catch feelings if you give back what they dish out to you?

Why do deadbeat fathers abandon their child(ren)?

Then come back once the child is prospering?

Why do some men concern themselves with a woman's approval?

Why do people sell out for fame & fortune?

You post your drama online, then get upset when people judge you

Why are some of the best TV shows cancelled, and replaced with garbage?

Why do people get caught up, then expect others to bail them out?

 

The End.

 



No Woman=No Life?

 

 

Today's message is going to be titled "No Woman, No Life". Few things I dislike more than a man that bases his whole existence on woman companionship. He can't eat, sleep, or breathe without a woman. Every move a man makes, he gauges how it will garner a woman's approval. That's flaw to me, because a woman isn't centering her life around some random man. I would expect this behavior from clingy women; they don't know any better so that's why they hang on their man's every word. Wherever he goes, she's beside him. She has to ask for permission to even have a life. Most women wouldn't go for that, so by default a man should keep it moving. Men should be indifferent towards a woman noticing him; good if she does, good if she doesn't. A man that's secure with himself does not need a woman's validation. He knows who he is, and what he stands for, and won't settle for less. The quote "Having a woman in your life is worth it. A real man will accept her moods regardless." First, having the right woman in your life is worth it, because she will bring out the best in you, and vice versa. Second, a real man will check his woman if she's getting beside herself. If a man allows his woman to use her moods as an excuse to be disrespectful, that signals doormat. People do what you allow, so if someone mistreats you, it's because you let them. People will respect you if you lay down the law immediately; that way, they'll know where you stand. When a man is secure with being single, he doesn't see a need to chase after women. His life goes on with(out) a woman in his life. A woman will compliment a good man, and will be able to multiply what he brings into her life. Under no circumstances, should a man sell his soul just for women's approval.