The title of today's Strawberry Letter is Doing What I Want, When I Want. This lady has been married 4 times & really wants THIS marriage to work, but her man is showing his behind. He told her straight up that it's ok if he converses with other women, and he does it in her face. I don't know if he's asking for a death wish or he's bold, but if a man is dogging his woman like this man is to her, he must not love her too much. Going further, he cares nothing about her feelings because if he did, he wouldn't be doing what he's doing. Here are the hints: She confronts him when he talks to other women, and he tells her he can lie if he wants to, let alone talk with other woman. He calls her insecure for feeling some kind of way. She has every right to feel some kind of way because she made a decision to marry his sorry butt, and he's going to play her like this. Why did she marry him anyway? Is it because she was so desperate for any man that showed her interest, that she didn't do her due diligence? I'm thinking that's it. It's better to be alone than in bad company. She's already got her bags packed, and ready to leave; I hope she follows through on leaving and never looks back. He disrespects her feelings, he's blatantly cheating on her to her face, and doesn't want to go to counseling. What more clues does she need that he doesn't care about her? I understand her trying to honor her vows before God, but God doesn't want his children abused & mistreated in the name of love. There comes a time where you have to just LEAVE, and don't look back. The longer she stays, the more hurt he's going to inflict on her. She doesn't need that.
