There's a reason some people prefer to keep their life private, because you have nosy people fishing for details to use against you in a disagreement. Let's be real, some people are foul. You tell them things in confidence & the minute y'all fall out, your business is out there. Even if that's not the case, everyone shouldn't be privy to your personal life except God. I know some people mean well, but folks need to respect others' decision to keep their life private.