A woman asks her man "What Are You Doing Today?" and he responds with "I'm going over to my friend Crystal's house to install her new flatscreen TV." The woman is apprehensive about his decision, because she thinks he's going to cheat. Does she stop him from helping his friend or trust him? For most women, this would be a no-brainer if he's been faithful in the past. It's not that she doesn't trust her man; she does, but she doesn't trust the woman because being a woman, his lady knows how conniving some women can be. Some women will conjure up any reason to get a man to come over her place: TV needs installation, relationship advice, car repair, etc. Even though she may let him go, there's always a possibility that he may cheat. In that case, the man has his mind made up to cheat before he carries out the action.
When a (wo)man wants to cheat, nothing will stop him. People are going to do what they want, no matter how good a (wo)man you are to them. It's almost not worth it to get into a relationship with someone because how much do you REALLY know them? People will show you their good side because they don't want their (wo)man to think ill of them; that's part of trying to attract someone to spend the rest of your life with. It takes a thorough man NOT to violate his woman's trust, because once trust is broken, that's a wrap. A legit man would make it clear to his lady friend that he has a woman, and he's not going to do anything to ruin his relationship. He can lay down the law, but it's up to his friend Crystal to respect that boundary.
Women have wiles. Again, he might not have any thought of anything, but that doesn't mean she is going to act right. Too many break ups over mess. Some women want to prevent that by any means necessary. On a serious note, what can a man call a female friend to do that's on the same level as him installing a TV or doing craft work? Probably nothing. This all boils down to trust.
When a (wo)man wants to cheat, nothing will stop him. People are going to do what they want, no matter how good a (wo)man you are to them. It's almost not worth it to get into a relationship with someone because how much do you REALLY know them? People will show you their good side because they don't want their (wo)man to think ill of them; that's part of trying to attract someone to spend the rest of your life with. It takes a thorough man NOT to violate his woman's trust, because once trust is broken, that's a wrap. A legit man would make it clear to his lady friend that he has a woman, and he's not going to do anything to ruin his relationship. He can lay down the law, but it's up to his friend Crystal to respect that boundary.
Women have wiles. Again, he might not have any thought of anything, but that doesn't mean she is going to act right. Too many break ups over mess. Some women want to prevent that by any means necessary. On a serious note, what can a man call a female friend to do that's on the same level as him installing a TV or doing craft work? Probably nothing. This all boils down to trust.
