I Don't Have Time For That Nonsense

"Nojma Reflects

Listen to the blatant hatred we exude towards Black Men. Black Men ain’t s***; Black men are dogs". With this mindset you will definitely chase black men away. Sometimes, as women, we are so harsh in how we discuss our feelings and misgivings about Black men, we forget how much they are beaten up in every other aspect of life.

We have to stop allowing our insecurity about finding a good man manifest into negative attitudes toward all black men. We ask where are all the good black men, but brothers can rightfully ask where are all the good black WOMEN?"

Some women don't want the script flipped on them. They want to be the ones asking "where are the good black men?" Good black men are all around, but they pay close attention to the belligerent antics of some black women that they refuse to deal with any drama. A real man doesn't want a drama queen because she's going to make his life miserable at every turn. I loved this message from Nojma Reflects because it was spot on. Just like good black women deserve a good man, the reverse is true for black men; they deserve a good woman that will respect & cherish them.

Strong Women Love Weak Men

I've come to the conclusion that strong women love weak men. Weak men cater to them, don't challenge them, weak men are afraid to call women on their B.S, weak men encourage and cosign some black women's silly mindsets and rabid emotions. A real man does the opposite of what I just mentioned...AND THEY CALL HIM OVERBEARING AND CONTROLLING BECAUSE LIKE A REAL MAN HE'S SUPPOSE TO SET AGENDAS AND STAND ON TOP OF IT!!!!...WOMEN TRY TO USE SHAMING DEFLECTIVE AND BERATING RHETORIC WHEN IT COMES TO THOSE TYPES because some women don't like order. They want to do what they want no matter how detrimental to them or the relationship. If strong women want a weak man, I say give them what they want. I will not feel sorry for any weak man who gets trampled on by a strong woman because he's too busy powdering her behind to tell her what she needs to hear. These dudes are the ultimate simps because they play up to her in order to gain favor. Usually, she has to threaten to withhold sex from him and he caves in to her tomfoolery. Some of these men are blinded by the nooky, that's all. You have some men that will sell their principles just to get in good with a strong woman because alas, she has what he wants. Little do weak men realize that deep down, she doesn't respect him. She has his balls in her purse and clowns him to her friends. "Girl, I have this dude eating out of the palm of my hand. He does whatever I say, what a lame." Just like some women say men can't handle a strong woman, so-called strong women can't handle a strong man that will set agendas and stick to them, even if she acts stupid.