When questions like this have to be asked, you know marriage is dismal. There are couples who really think they're entitled to an affair if their spouse is ill, shakes head. When you marry, you take the good with the bad. Sickness and health, better or worse, rich or poor, etc. If you're not ready to love your spouse through the good & bad, don't bother marrying. Honestly, I respect people who know the risks of marriage and choose not to marry; they know their limits so you can't be mad at that.
