Leading By Example

As with everything else, people learn by example rather than words. That's why there's the saying "Lead By Example" You can tell someone to do this, that and the third but if you're not doing it yourself, it's useless because people pay attention to your example rather than what you say. Fathers are no different because like this picture says, his son will one day follow his example instead of his advice. Advice combined with a good example yields a great return. For example, a father tells his son to treat women with respect but his son sees him treating his mother foul. That child will grow up thinking it's ok to disrespect women based on the example set for him. Conversely, if his son sees him showing love to his mom, he'll grow up with the proper understanding of how to treat women. It boils down to example; what example are fathers setting for their sons? Is it a good or bad example?

Play It How It Go

This is another one of those stupid quotes some women like to use. First off, men invented the rules of the game so you can't beat the originator. Some of them need to learn this. Second, personally I'm not about playing games. I tell it straight up what I expect from her and what I can add to her life; the rest is on her. It never ceases to amaze me how many quotes/pictures some women can come up with. Yes, a man should do right by his woman but to threaten him with "treat me like a game and I'll show you how it's played" signals a vindictive nature which is red flag for any sensible man. If a woman's not being treated correctly, just LEAVE. No sense in being vindictive to prove a point because in the end, she's no better than him. If anything, she should tell him "look, either you will treat me like I'm supposed to be treated or I'm gone". Most men will respect that and respond accordingly. This, and other likeminded quotes are just more tools that will keep some women lonely.