Men Coaching Women How To Keep A Man

 

Social media seems to be a magnet for relationship gurus. It doesn't matter if you're on FB, Twitter, Instagram or YouTube, you're guaranteed to find a few men schooling women on how to get & keep a man, and the ladies eat it up. Let's not dismiss what men have to say regarding how to get & keep a man because there are gems. What better way to learn how to attract a man than from a MAN? Granted, every man is different in what he's looking for, but generally...men aren't complicated. As long as she's loyal, driven & independent, most men are checking for that. Flipping the script: There's money in men schooling women how to get & keep a man. Why do you think there's so many relationship gurus out there? Because a lot of them have figured out how to monetize women's desire for a relationship. I don't know how true it is, but you don't see women schooling other women on how to get & keep a man like you do the reverse. 

Good Men vs. Bad Boys

My question is why good men are pressed over women choosing bad dudes? If she wants a street guy, that's her choice. Besides, most street dudes have a short life expectancy due to enemies coming for them. If she enjoys the dangers that come with dating a street guy, that's her decision & good men shouldn't be pressed. I think it's entitlement: Good men feel entitled to good women without working for them. It makes sense because a good woman should want a good man, but unfortunately, it doesn't always work that way. A man may be good, he's not good for her & that's ok. Everyone has preferences in a mate, and what if that good man doesn't meet her criteria? If he knows his worth, he'll keep it moving because he believes there's someone out there for him that'll appreciate who he is & what he has to offer.