Today's message is simple: Do What Makes Sense. So many times, people make life more complicated than necessary, which explains why many people are confused about which way to go, what decision to make regarding your career, the person to marry, etc. I try my best to simplify life as much as possible, so that's why I have a motto: Do What Makes Sense. If I'm living in a major city and my job is located in the city center, it would make sense for me to live downtown so I can walk the 2-3 blocks to work. It doesn't make sense for me to live in another part of town, then have to fight traffic commuting to downtown for work. The only exception is if my finances wouldn't allow for downtown living. I'd still find a spot that's in close proximity to my job. I would pay more in rent because of convenience, but I would be close to nightlife, my job, sporting events (many stadiums are located in city centers), with easy access to other parts of the city. Life can be as complicated, or as easy as you make it. The motto of "Do What Makes Sense" applies to all walks of life.
If you're looking to marry, the first thing you look at is compatibility. No one is going to marry someone they're not compatible with, that's bonkers. If you're chill, and your spouse is the "turn-up" type, wouldn't it make sense to not get involved with them? You two vibe together very well, but you can't get past their "turn-up" personality. Every day, they have to go out. You want to spend time at home with your spouse, but they would rather go out & party every night. That's grounds for fussing. There's nothing that good outside the home where you have to be out & about all the time. Facebook has this meme circulating: There's nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to keep her behind home. It gets no better. It makes perfect sense to marry a likeminded person, because those are the best relationships. A spender & saver would not work out because one person wants to spend as soon as they get a little change, the other wants to stack money because of a rainy day. There's nothing worse than an emergency coming up, and you don't have the money.
In conclusion, always remember to do what makes sense, whether it's choosing a degree to study or choosing a (wo)man o build a good life with. If something doesn't sound right, chances are it doesn't make sense and you don't need to go that route.
In conclusion, always remember to do what makes sense, whether it's choosing a degree to study or choosing a (wo)man o build a good life with. If something doesn't sound right, chances are it doesn't make sense and you don't need to go that route.
