Black Women Outnumber Men In Church
It's no secret that black women, and women as a whole outnumber men in church. Why do black women outnumber black men in the church? For the most part, women are much more interested in being led by the Holy Spirit and since pastors are called by God to spread the gospel, women pack churches nationwide to hear what God has to say through the pastor. The women become so obligated to the Pastor and his wife that they neglect their own healthiness and homes. They seek out the Pastor instead of God on every decision, and oftentimes the Pastor is biased and gives advice that benefits him & his household. There are pastors who are led by God, and will advise their members to pray about their situation before seeking additional counsel. I think all pastors should require their members to read their Bible before coming for counseling. The Bible will have their answer.
Some women are notorious for saying the following: I Don't Need A Man, Jesus Is My Man. The word "my" signals ownership. No one can have him but you. You never hear men saying "Mary is my woman" or "I Don't need a woman, my momma is my #1 lady" No, because we know how foolish that sounds. I understand why some women would say the aforementioned statement, because many women have no desire for marriage so they have to stake claim somehow. Because many pastors know that their congregation consists of mostly women, they tell women what they want to hear and she eats it up. If I was being told what I wanted to hear, I'd be going there too. Pastors know how to appeal to women's emotions, so that's why many women flock to the church every Sunday & Wednesday.
Most men know the deal, so it's hard for a pastor to run game on them. Some men won't be with a Christian woman because that Christian woman is committed to upholding her standards at his expense. That's why the Bible says that believers should not be unequally yoked, because of conflicting beliefs. Also, many men know that the biggest freaks can be found in church. All it takes is the right wordplay, and she'll be screaming Jesus, but it won't be for the right reason.
It's no secret that black women, and women as a whole outnumber men in church. Why do black women outnumber black men in the church? For the most part, women are much more interested in being led by the Holy Spirit and since pastors are called by God to spread the gospel, women pack churches nationwide to hear what God has to say through the pastor. The women become so obligated to the Pastor and his wife that they neglect their own healthiness and homes. They seek out the Pastor instead of God on every decision, and oftentimes the Pastor is biased and gives advice that benefits him & his household. There are pastors who are led by God, and will advise their members to pray about their situation before seeking additional counsel. I think all pastors should require their members to read their Bible before coming for counseling. The Bible will have their answer.
Some women are notorious for saying the following: I Don't Need A Man, Jesus Is My Man. The word "my" signals ownership. No one can have him but you. You never hear men saying "Mary is my woman" or "I Don't need a woman, my momma is my #1 lady" No, because we know how foolish that sounds. I understand why some women would say the aforementioned statement, because many women have no desire for marriage so they have to stake claim somehow. Because many pastors know that their congregation consists of mostly women, they tell women what they want to hear and she eats it up. If I was being told what I wanted to hear, I'd be going there too. Pastors know how to appeal to women's emotions, so that's why many women flock to the church every Sunday & Wednesday.
Most men know the deal, so it's hard for a pastor to run game on them. Some men won't be with a Christian woman because that Christian woman is committed to upholding her standards at his expense. That's why the Bible says that believers should not be unequally yoked, because of conflicting beliefs. Also, many men know that the biggest freaks can be found in church. All it takes is the right wordplay, and she'll be screaming Jesus, but it won't be for the right reason.
