This is Part 2 on my previous discussion of Relationship Entitlement. A lot of men complain about spending $200 or so on a date with a woman only to find out the relationship is going nowhere. That's bonkers to me because common sense should signal if you're involved with someone, you don't mind spending money on them because they are your MAN or WOMAN. They have earned the right to be in your life. The idea of spending money to buy someone's affection is ludicrous. This is how I feel: If a man CHOOSES to drop $200 or more on a date with a woman and gets nothing in return, he has NO RIGHT to complain because he threw away money on a woman that wasn't feeling him. Going on a date is like trying on clothes in a dressing room at a department store; you see if (s)he is a good fit for you and if so, you go through with the purchase. That's a sucker move to spend money on a man or woman and the relationship goes nowhere. A woman IS NOT obligated to give up the coochie just because a man shells out $400+ on a date with her. Some women will do that, but they're few and far between. This problem can easily be solved if men would stop checking for these princessy, entitled women. If a man is meeting a woman for the first time and she's expecting to be wined & dined but feels as if she doesn't have to reciprocate, EXIT STAGE LEFT. A lot of men don't understand this principle because they're looking at being rewarded with sex. The problem is some women have an entitlement mentality which stems from their fathers pumping their heads up with this craziness; "Beware of men who say you have to bring something to the table. A man is supposed to take care of you this, that and the third" When some women run up on discerned men that see right through their princess mindset, they can't handle it because they're used to having their butts powdered. The only woman that's worthy of my money is a woman that has Mrs. and Hudson in her name. Otherwise, if I want to get to know a woman, great conversation we will have. It's free & doesn't cost anything. Just like women have an entitlement complex, men are catching up as well because most men measure their future woman by their mother; they want a woman that has the qualities of their mom. I can understand wanting someone with the qualities of your parents, but people need to realize the individuality that a potential significant other can bring.
