The fact that her fiancé lied about his marital status from the jump should’ve told her about his lack of character. Her father was SMART to have him checked out – something that more WOMEN need to start doing to save themselves from walking into unhealthy situations with dishonorable men. There’s a reason her instincts are telling her not to marry this man. Her parents are wise not to mettle. They’re not telling her not to marry him, but aren't encouraging you to do so either. That decision is HERS. Women have intuition for a reason, the problem is they don’t ACT on it – especially when it comes to a man. They’re too pressed and desperate to have one, or hold on to one even if he’s not worth holding onto. She discovered other lies he’s told although these circumstances were in his past and before her; yet more lies. The relationship started out based on a lie (his marital status), then she found out more lies. Guess what, there were probably FUTURE lies as well.
His “baby mamma” drama is going nowhere. Unfortunately, that comes with the territory when dating men with children, particularly young children. She has much to consider. If the positives outweigh the negatives, then she should continue seeing him, and see where it goes. No need to rush into marriage with someone who you have doubts about. That would be foolish.
