The title of this Strawberry Letter is perfect because this lady is cheating on her husband with another man, then has the nerve to say she doesn't want to mess up her family. Never mind that he cheated first, but she's no better for trying to pay him back. I've said the same thing in previous letters of this nature: If couples are sneaking around on each other, they have no business being together. You can tell she hasn't forgiven him because the moment she had an opportunity to exact revenge, she took it. She already destroyed two families: Hers & the other man's (if he's married). This is what people don't realize about cheating: Not only does cheating hurt the victim, but it hurts the offender and the other party. Once the other woman finds out, this person is going to be in a world of trouble. She's not in love with the other guy, she's in love with the sex. For her, it's a rush to see how long she can keep up the creeping around before she has to make a decision. Just like women hate being led on, so do men. She's going to have to choose which guy she wants: The man she's been with for 6 years or this new guy she's falling for. Just like she's playing two men, the other guy could be playing her just the same. The other guy probably isn't feeling her like she's feeling him; she's just a piece of meat to him. As for the husband, I don't condone what he did, but he should've learned the #1 rule about women: A woman will forgive her man for cheating, but she won't forget. If a woman gets an opportunity to exact revenge for her husband's infidelity by sleeping with another man, there's a good chance she will take it.
