Repost: Question 2: After what number of dates should a woman offer to pay for the date after she’s been out on a couple of dates with the same guy?
This question is symbolic of what goes on in relationships today. Some feel the man should continue paying, others feel she should kick in. Depending on who initiated the date, to me that’s who should foot the bill. My response:
This is the problem with relationships: One person does all the giving while the other takes, takes and takes. Relationships like that WILL NOT last because they are built on selfishness. Regardless of who initiated the date, to expect one person to put in all the work is ridiculous. The other person doing the receiving has nothing to bring to the table. If a man is dropping $200 or more for dates on a woman he's probably not feeling, he's not very intelligent because who's to say if you spend $$$ on a woman, she'll be interested in you. You don't know. Ladies and Gentlemen, don't allow your mate to drive you broke.
