There comes a point in our lives where people must say enough is enough especially as it relates to detrimental relationships. No one should use anyone for their personal gain, that's not cool AT ALL. I also believe that people do what you allow, meaning if you let someone use you, you can't get upset when they have their way with you because you didn't check them on how you want to be treated. It's funny how people that used you in the past have no use for you when you no longer allow their detrimental behavior. Good riddance, LET THEM GO. If taking a stand means you'll lose some people, so be it. Let the sorry leeches sap someone else. I used to let people walk over me but now, not anymore. If I feel controlled, I will retaliate how I see fit. If I feel like I'm being used, that's not going to fly with me; no way, no how. I hate to see people being used and then become bitter because they won't stand up for themselves. I see why many people have a no-nonsense personality because people definitely take your kindness as weakness. You don't want to be mean but at the same time you don't want people to use you. There are genuine people that value people's kindness and those are the people I want in my circle. Like diamonds, lovely people are extremely rare so that's why it's important to cherish those who make their mark in your life. Think about it, how can a user get upset when the recipient says enough is enough? That's the ultimate form of ratchet. They're good enough to use, but all of a sudden you have no use for them anymore because they are fed up with your shenanigans? Well, get to stepping (Martin Payne voice).
