If a man isn't being a man, somebody's got to do it. That "somebody" means the woman. How many women think this way? More than we know, and that's sad. In every relationship, there's an order that must be followed (if a person's single, the order doesn't apply.): The man is considered the head over the woman. God set it up like this for a reason. Most women don't agree with or like the order, but they need to take it up with God. If a woman senses a man isn't fulfilling his role, she needs to leave him. She has no business staying with a man that's comfortable in letting the woman lead. Women lose respect for their men if he allows her to bulldoze him. Contrary to women's combative nature, many women do want an assertive man that will check them. I don't know of any woman that wants a man to let her rum amok and endanger him/her(self). Sadly, many women enter relationships with weak men, then get upset when she has to take charge. Well, someone has to take charge in a relationship or there will be chaos. If a man's not doing his job, it's on the woman to do one of two things: Get rid of him or tell him to shape up. A woman shouldn't have to tell her man to tighten up, his game should be tight daily. Every day, a man should strategize on how to position his family for survival after he leaves this world. I don't know too many men that would be cool with letting their woman lead, although they do exist. If a man is fine with letting his woman lead, that's his perogative. He needs to understand that his woman will lose respect for him as time passes. She may not say it, but she's thinking it. First, the dirty looks; next, silent treatment, and it takes one argument which will reveal everything she's felt up to that point. No woman should have to be the man in her relationship. If he's not doing his job, cancel him and move on to a more thorough man. The issue is, a no-nonsense man won't allow his woman to get away with nonsense so when she tries it with him, he's gonna put her in her place, and dare her to move. Wait, a woman CAN be the man in her relationship, but that would make her a hermaphrodite. She can't decide if she wants to wear the pants or the panties in a relationship.
