You had to know I was going to flip it on the men, right? Right. What's good for one, is good for the other. Ever since this term "These Hoes Aren't Loyal" gone viral, people have taken that statement and ran with it. Personally, I'm sick of that term because some people run it into the hole. Since some men love spouting how women aren't loyal, neither are they. A man meets a respectable woman who's compatible with him, they get married but...he's been cheating on his woman long before marriage. She never found out, which is the strange part. How can you be married to someone for years, and not know they're creeping? Many women have very good discernment, so they know what's up in their relationship. If something's not right, a woman will investigate because her discernment won't allow her to be made a fool of. I'm getting tired of some men saying how "hoes" aren't loyal, when men cheat just as much as, if not more than women.
Just like hoes aren't loyal, neither are some men. One good woman isn't enough for some men, he's got to have a bevy of women. If a man can't appreciate one good woman, something's wrong. When I think of men dogging women, I think of a little boy who hasn't grown up. He doesn't realize the value of a good woman because he hasn't had suitable examples. It's well known if a man doesn't have a stand-up mother, he's not going to hold women in high regard. If a doggish man is lucky to get a good woman, he'll dog her out so bad that she'll become a part of the Angry Black Sisterhood. You'll encounter them on social media or in real life: They're trademark statements are "F a black man, black men aren't spit, this, that and the third". Sadly, the doggish men give good men a bad name because when a good man encounters a jaded woman, he has to pay for another man's sins. Not many men will tolerate a jaded woman, as he shouldn't. It's not his fault you (the woman) were dogged out. If he wasn't loyal, whose fault is it? Hers, because she had to know he was no good before she met him. A good woman cannot make a disloyal man be loyal. Before a man shoots off how women aren't loyal, he should ask himself the same question.
