Good Good Won't Cut It

"Nojma Reflects

I know you have taken that infamous “Smack it up, flip it, rub it down, oh, no” verse to a new level. I mean you can do cartwheels; handstands, back flips, you just have all types of tricks in your stash. You just know that your sex is so good, that you can get anything you want from him right? While you do what you do, you’re thinking “yes I've got him, I am securing my position as his woman”, when in reality the “position” that you’re in is only securing the fact that in that moment, you are giving him PLEASURE. "Pleasure is fleeting" and if you have this mindset....then so are you."

I love a confident woman, one who's sure of herself and what she brings to the table, but some women think good sex is all it takes to keep a man. If he's thirsty like she is then yes, he'll stay around for that good good. A discerned brother that knows what he wants will understand that it takes more than good sex to keep him. Deep conversations about where the couple sees themselves 3, 5 years from now will always trump good good because both parties are concerned with the inner instead of the outer. Some people are too focused on pleasure instead of longevity. What if medical challenges say a couple can't have sex? Then that "good good" she once had will shrivel up and die. Either he's going to love her regardless or look for sexual pleasure outside the relationship. Good good isn't going to make a relationship last, it's communication and loyalty. If anything, sex is a bonus.

Facebook Amusement Park

Welcome To Facebook, where liars tell more lies, losers are CEO's, every sinner is a saint, captain save 'em is a pimp, haters complain about haters, friends & family block you, enemies are facebook friends, weak people are gangsters and some women are models. Men post pics of themselves with shades and last but not least most people put on for the book. You can be whatever you want to be on Facebook so step right up. Some folk know they need to stop fronting for Facebook. The worst is when someone knows you outside of FB that knows your history and you're on here putting on for FB. That's why it's not cool to add every Tom, Dick & Harry that requests you because you don't want to look crazy by talking about how you're this & that. Granted, there are truthful people on Facebook who keep it real on and offline (myself included) but to outright front for FB is not the move. Who are you trying to impress? I feel like this, be yourself on and offline. Nobody on Facebook impresses me enough to where I have to front about who and what I am. The thing is, there's always a few people that have you as a mutual friend so you are affiliated by default. I joined facebook to meet new people and connect with those I lost touch with over the years. There are people I haven't seen since high school & college that I looked up (and have looked me up) who added me and vice versa. All others, we share similar views and outlooks on life. Honestly, for anyone to get an add from me I pay attention to what they post. If they post inspiration, humor or general thoughts, they get a request from me because I like stuff like that.

Facebook World

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