In every game, there's established rules of how the game is played. You have two or more players and as with all games, someone is bound to lose. How can you play the game and catch feelings when you lose? That's stupid.
I remember a conversation I had with a coworker years ago. She was interested in a brother, and after maybe three weeks of knowing him, she didn't understand why he didn't want to sleep with her. He told her that he wanted to get to know her mind. She took that as rejection and decided that she was going to deliberately seduce him, so she did and they had sex. Afterwards, she was feeling proud of herself, and the next day her calls went unanswered. She didn't understand why. The Brother texted her and told her to stop calling him, he told her, she should be happy because SHE got what SHE wanted, but it was to bad that she couldn't be who HE wanted her to be.
So then she started dogging the brother out,and I said well he's correct. You wanted to sleep with him, so he slept with you. He told you that he wanted to probe your mind, but you feel that your value was in him probing your body. You offered yourself to him and you can't be upset that he took you up on YOUR offer.
I said the real issue is why do you see it as rejection if a man tells you that he isn't rushing to sleep with you, because he wants to get to know you better? That's the real question.
Sisters, it makes no sense to think that your womb is a way to a man's heart. Look at the human body. The heart is located ABOVE the waist, so how can you secure his heart by going PAST it?
Sisters your back is NOT the foundation upon which your relationship should be built on!
So then she started dogging the brother out,and I said well he's correct. You wanted to sleep with him, so he slept with you. He told you that he wanted to probe your mind, but you feel that your value was in him probing your body. You offered yourself to him and you can't be upset that he took you up on YOUR offer.
I said the real issue is why do you see it as rejection if a man tells you that he isn't rushing to sleep with you, because he wants to get to know you better? That's the real question.
Sisters, it makes no sense to think that your womb is a way to a man's heart. Look at the human body. The heart is located ABOVE the waist, so how can you secure his heart by going PAST it?
Sisters your back is NOT the foundation upon which your relationship should be built on!
My View: She laid down with him and has the nerve to get upset because he didn't call her back? What you expect? He got what he wanted out of her and he's probably long gone. No reason for him to stay because he already got his. She tried to play the game and got caught up like Usher; she has the nerve to feel slighted? Some people need to learn that when you play, you pay.
