Parents are their child(ren)'s first teachers. Most of society's problems can be solved with proper home training. I get it, there's no rulebook on parenting and for the most part, it's trial & error, but if a child is doing the same mess they see their parent(s) doing, the parent can't be in their feelings when their child is headed for destruction. The child didn't learn on their own, they got it from their parent(s). Parents need to be real with their children about their mistakes & maybe that child will avoid the pitfalls of their parents.