A Real Woman

 

Also taken from the Facebook page Grown Man Logic: A REAL WOMAN is a God fearing woman of morals, ethics, values, is able to leave something to the imagination that possesses an air of sophistication and class. She understands her independence, knows her worth and has enough sense to know if a man is feeding her nonsense. She is hard working, treats people with respect, expresses gratitude when deserved, appreciates the finer things along with the little things life and people offer. She takes pride in her body and does not or easily allow men to even enter her domain or realm in that physical aspect until it is known that her man of interest is truly interested. She’s confident, understands beauty is within and doesn’t need to brag about looks or anything pertaining to herself because it is shown by the way she carries herself and her daily actions. She is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional or verbal) with her head held high! Are you a REAL WOMAN?

My View: Emphasis on the last sentence: She is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional, or verbal). I feel bad for some women who stay in abusive relationships, but I can't feel sorry for any woman who allows herself to be abused repeatedly. At some point, she has to buck up and get out of there, even if her life may be at risk. She has her father, male friends and other male relatives that will put Boots To Behind on the abuser.



A Real Man

The following is a very good explanation of what a real man should be. I got this from the Facebook page Grown Man Logic (If you're on Facebook, like his page). Without further ado: A REAL MAN is a man who is God centered, values his word and is 100% accountable for his actions. He is the backbone of his family if he has one and is hard working. He is reliable so when he is needed in any shape or form, he is able to come through with a solution, resolution, or compromise. He understands what is most important and what isn’t. He is a role model for not only his kids but all youth. A real man knows when to speak, when to listen and doesn’t partake in gossip. He gives his all in whatever he does, does what’s right even when it’s unpopular and treats all women with respect! He is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional or verbal) with his head held high! Are you a REAL MAN? 

My $.02: This is the best definition I have read about a real man. In a nutshell, a real man stands for what he believes in, doesn't cave under pressure and keeps God at the forefront. I like the last sentence "He is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse. This coincides with what I believe: Anyone who stays with someone that abuses them has serious issues. It's not love when someone's going upside your head or dogging you.