Yes Black Women, we SHOULD apologize to Black Men.......let me tell you ...

Here's a video from a very intelligent sister. Black women like her are a hot commodity among men because she's smart, respectful and tells it like it is. She doesn't powder anyone's behind. When you're wrong, you're wrong, it doesn't matter if you're a man or woman.

Notice To Men

Nojma Reflects

22 hours ago

Brothers! Forget what the body is like, you better see what the MIND is like! You get enchanted by a nice physical build when the mental has caution tape wrapped around the corners, because the mind is so unstable it has been CONDEMNED, just no good! Restoration must take place for that mental womb to have any value. BBD (Bel Biv Devoe) told you don't trust a big butt and a smile. Your Sis is telling you don't trust a big butt, a smile, or whatever else you like, because the outer package might be pleasing, but the inside has been CORRUPTED. Mess around and have your seed held hostage in a vindictive, trifling ass, evil ass woman. The Black Man is viewed as a no good ain't nothing man and THAT is why all types of injustice and madness can be done to you without a second thought. What is a woman's FIRST threat? To put you on child support or throw you in jail. Women are victims because this system enables us to be. A woman could go in with a sob story, and before you've been served with paperwork you've been tried and convicted for whatever "she" said. The womb should be the safest place for a child, but the womb has now become a "war room" and our children are casualties of war, thanks to all these "Bitter Mama Generals" we have running around here.

My View: She Better Say That! She put all the men on blast and rightfully so. Too many men are mesmerized by a big butt and smile, then wonder why they get jammed up. Men HAVE to learn how to look deeper other than a woman's curves and smile. Yes, looks matter (as they should, to a degree; everyone wants someone that's nice to look at), but the heart is what matters. Is she family oriented, can she carry intelligent conversation, etc. Those are the questions men need to ask instead of focusing on her derriere. The prettiest women can be the most vindictive because they know how to use their looks to get what they want. Look at the system, a woman can get a man hemmed up JUST on what she said. That's not right, but it happens. The outer package might be pleasing, but the inside has been defiled. When God is truly first, you see things through his eyes before making major decisions! Men can only blame themselves when they forget that or are ignorant to his commandments and word! Making decisions based on lust has, and will always be stupid; yet, some men choose to look at the outer rather than inner. Men should have the ability to look at both. Our people once were disciplined enough to be proficient mind, body, and soul. Yes, men are visual but that's no excuse NOT to do his due diligence on that woman because even though she may have curves and a nice smile, her character could be foul.