How is marriage a big commitment but having kids together isn’t?🤔
My answer: Marriage has more at stake than just having kids out of wedlock. In marriage, two people are coming together to build a legacy. Both man & woman must be on the same page, or the marriage won’t last. If a man & woman have kids out of wedlock, there’s no expectation to stay together. If the man can’t stand the woman (vice versa), he can go about his business & co-parent. There are couples who have kids out of wedlock & marry later; how often does that happen?🤔It’s the old school in me, but I’d rather marry before having kids because at least…she has shown herself worthy of being my wife & my child(ren)’s mother.
