When you stay in your lane & observe, you learn a lot about people. People are a trip sometimes because when you're doing what they want, they sing your praises. As soon as you say no, some people aren't feeling you because they've grown accustomed to you co-signing. At times, you need to go along to get along, but if following the crowd leads to destruction....I'm not following. Do I care if people get mad and talk about me? No. That's what's wrong with society today, people would rather have an amen corner instead of folks telling them the real. I guess that's why I have a very small circle because I'm not a sheep; I actually think for myself even if it means standing alone.