A man calls into a Christian counseling radio show bawling his eyes out; this guy is crying hysterically. It's bad enough he's crying, because I believe a man should only cry if his mother dies. This man is shedding tears because his wife manipulated him. This woman was a drinker, brawler and cusser when he met her. Drinked and smoked too. She was I call a party girl. Then she looked good to him, most likely blew his mind in the bedroom, and was sold. He told her he couldn't marry a woman that does all of that, she said she could stop. He wanted to believe her and said ok. Now that she got his money, this fool on the radio crying like he shocked. She curses him out, now he's crying because she didn't love him as much as he thought. Really? That fool didn't see that coming. No, he saw it coming, he chose to ignore the signs (as most men do). When someone shows you who they are, believe them. If you try to tame a wild animal and that animal mauls you, don't get upset because that animal is acting like his nature. Women want strong men; men who can hold it down even if the odds are not in his favor. It's hard for me to feel sorry for this man because from Day 1, he should've known her nature. Maybe I'm not the marrying kind because that kind of disrespect I wouldn't tolerate at all. If a woman did all that to me, she would be gone. That's the problem with some of these men, they give their woman too many passes to keep fouling up because he's too soft to lay down the law. If your mate is being disrespectful towards others, (s)he is being disrespectful to you. I understand you have to work through situations in marriage, but some topics require zero tolerance: Abuse & Infidelity being the majors. Even if she didn't physically hit him, she verbally abused him and that qualifies as abuse. Man Law #245-Never cry your eyes out on nationally syndicated radio. I guess she wears the pants, and he wears the panties in the relationship. Here's how I feel: It's only acceptable for a man to shed tears over the death of his mother; but for a man to cry over a woman, a domineering one at that, I can't see it. It's one thing to love your wife, but if she's a witch, you check & charge her. If she can't act right, she has to take flight.
