What is people's fascination with exposing people? Everywhere I turn, someone's talking about exposing this & that person. My first thought: While you're busy trying to expose someone else, someone is trying to expose you. In other words, make sure you have no dirt before you go trying to expose another person. Better yet, who are you to expose anyone? That's God's job. Unlike people, God keeps careful tally so we get what we deserve, good or bad. I think some people get off on exposing folks because it gives them power. If you put someone on blast, and get others against them, you feel powerful. Little do you realize, you have your own dirt that has yet to be exposed, if at all. My stance is this: You don't have to expose anyone because the truth has a way of coming to light. In due time, either folks will slip up and expose themselves or people will find out on their own. I believe in giving folks enough rope to hang themselves. Too many people try to do the Lord's job without all the facts. Many times, we expose people out of spite. This person did me dirty so I'm gonna put them on blast. You're not the only one who was mistreated, and you won't be the last. In due time, people will find out someone's true colors and when they do, it's over. All I'm saying is no one is important enough to expose anyone, because we all have flaws. One flawed person exposing another flawed person is the same as the blind leading the blind. If you're going to front someone out, you better be Mr(s). Perfect.
Aug 5, 2015
He Said He Had Cancer So I Married Him | Steve Harvey in the Morning on WDAS
The worst thing anyone can do is LIE about having a terminal disease. He knew what he was doing when he made up the fake cancer story; it was to get this woman to marry him and she fell for it. If he lied about this, there's no telling what else he's lying about. If she has any sense about herself, she will reconsider being with him. Here's a major clue that stood out to me that said he was lying: He told her he's been given 3 months to live and he's dying. Now, anyone with a terminal disease who's been given months to live should not be thinking about marriage. They should be trying to prepare their family for the worst because although some people beat cancer, some people it's their time. He wished to be married prior to his death. Why couldn't he propose to her BEFORE this fake death scare? I'll tell you why: He knew in his heart he was lying. He wanted this woman by any means necessary, and like some men, he made up a fake cancer story to tug at this woman's heart; she fell for it. Since he came clean about the fake cancer story, I wonder if she still has the same love for him. They did get married and have a baby together, so it's not like if they divorce, both are free. Even if they don't work out, they are forever bound by the baby. Let's be honest: She knows how to feel. He lied to marry her by making up a fake cancer story. He should've been honest with her and said he wanted to get to know her better with the intention of marriage. Now, she may not believe a word he says because he's shown her he can't be trusted. If she chooses to stay with him and they have an argument, she will have ammunition to use against him. Some women may forgive, but they don't forget.
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