This is tough for me to learn, but I have to do it. I, like many people don't like most of the pain in our lives that's out of our control, but I'm learning to push through all the bullcrap in life to reach my comfort zone. I'm all for speaking life into dead situations because who wants to be content when something can be changed? Not me, but...the reality is that you'll have some struggles for life because we live in a fallen world. I don't like it anymore than anyone else, but it's facts.