One phrase comes to mind: Lies From The Book Of Lies. She wants a ring, but because he took her word for it, he didn't bother to get her a ring. This is why a lot of men have to read between the lines of their woman. A woman may say she doesn't want a ring, but deep down she does. To a woman, a ring signals commitment. Putting a ring on a woman's finger means she's spoken for. Overall, I think they have a great relationship: They compliment each other; communication, laughing and work through issues together. By all accounts, they have an excellent relationship, so I don't think she should make a big deal over not having a ring on her finger. After all, it's the love that counts. Then again, what you value goes into how you handle finances. This man is a good example because he values material things more than what's important to his woman.
How can he spend on material things, but not his woman? That should tell her all she needs to know about his feelings for him. I figure, as long as he's not violating their marriage, it shouldn't matter if she gets a ring from him or not. Then again, like I stated earlier, a ring means a lot to a woman. If she's spoken for, she needs that ring as confirmation; otherwise that gives other guys the green light to move in on her. It's in his best interest to get her a nice ring ASAP because I see she's not going to let it go; her not getting a ring. Going further, he should've used the money he spent on those material things to buy her a ring. A man pays attention to his woman's love language, and hers is having a ring, so he missed a vital opportunity to make her happy.
