May 20, 2013

Public Service Announcement


At first glance, thirsty men are going to think "I'd love to drink her bathwater, or ask her to call them (knowing that will never happen). Here's my favorite: I want to get next to her". These men kill me with their thirst. For those of you who don't know her, her name is Tiara Harris. She's from San Francisco and has her own photo website. I'm not going to lie, she is very shapely & attractive. Unlike a lot of men, I don't go goo goo ga ga over attractive women. At most, I'll think to myself "she's attractive", and go about my business. Attractive women like Tiara get hundreds of compliments everyday, so she's used to it. I'm going somewhere with this, so wait for it...wait for it...ACTION: Many black men describe her as the ideal woman; she's curvy and has a nice smile. Bel Biv Devoe made a song for women like this, and it's called Poison. Never trust a big butt & smile. It baffles me that some men find this kind of woman hot, but catch feelings when she plays them. Going further, these men have the audacity to label all black women as not being about nothing. Well, nobody told you to check for her curves & cute face. When people want the ideal black woman, they look her up. These dudes admire this woman with pictures of her cooch all over the internet. This is the woman they would kill to be with, then she plays them like the fools they are, because every man will want her, and there will always be someone with deeper pockets. Then they get on FB talking about black women ain't crap. I'm convinced that men don't know how to look past a woman's curves & cute face, and focus on her character.


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