Trading Heaven For Hell

"Nojma Reflects

January 11

You have to love the women that send me messages. Just bless their poor little deflecting hearts. I was told that submissive women get "boring" after awhile. Hey Brothers how many of you trade in your peaceful home, with a submissive wife, who knows her role, doesn't challenge yours, who manifests the continuance of your existence through her womb for a loud mouthed, you can't tell me nothing, I am grown woman " punchanella, punchanella what can you do? punchanella, punchanella I can do it too...except I can do it better rebel of a woman? Because that makes so much sense right? To trade Heaven for Hell."

What man wants to trade heaven for hell? Any man that trades a good, submissive, strong woman for a rebellious woman deserves every bit of hell she will put him through. Constant verbal warfare, the snide remarks, belligerence, etc. No sensible man wants to go through that. It baffles me that there are women who think like the above referenced in Nojma's blog. These women believe that challenging their man on every front equals strength. No, it means you don't trust his judgement to where you fall back and let him lead. Over time, he will get sick of the constant warfare with his lady and go elsewhere. What one woman won't do, another will. A man willingly choosing a rebel woman is like throwing yourself into molten lava, he gets burned beyond recgonition. A man goes to war every day he steps outside his door and the LAST place he wants to have wars is his home, the place of peace.

Call & Response Segment

Normally I do blog commentaries on various issues but today's going to be different. I'm going to post a series of statements that sound crazy and I give a response. Without further ado, let's get it on!

1. The sweetest woman in the world can become the meanest woman in the world if you make her that way.

Response: Negative. She was already mean to begin with, just that she did a good job suppressing it.

2. A man sleeps around and gets called a pimp, while a woman sleeps around and gets called a trick, hoe, slut, etc.

Response: Both men and women who sleep around are playing Russian Roulette with their lives. But hey, if you want your meat to turn rancid and your kitty to shrivel up into a prune, who am I to judge?

3. Everybody deserves a chance, just not from me.

Response: That's your perogative, but know that the other person can say the same to & about you.

4. Good Men & Women are hard to find

Response: Negative. They're right in front of you but you don't want to do the work to get & keep one.

5."I'm a good woman with a Master's Degree, my own house and car"

Response: And? So are many other women, what makes you stand out from the rest?

6. All women are golddiggers.

Response: You get what you put out. If you floss like you have bankrolls, then expect every woman on the block checking for you.

7. Men Are Dogs

Response: You stayed with that dog, so what does that make you? It's owner.

8. Mom! I'm pregnant. It's something in the air

Response: Your legs.

9. Women say: Your body is a temple, not a visitor's center

Response: Really? With all the men you let visit your temple, you need to consider expansion.

10. Behind every good man is a good woman

Response: For the most part, this is true. A good woman brings out the best in her man and vice versa.