There are some women who really adhere to this foolishness. Well, sensible, well to do men aren't bypassing the difficult women and going to the easy-going ones. I've lost compassion for men who complain about their difficult women. You picked her, so you must have saw something in her that you liked, so cut the crap. I'm going to cut & paste a few comments from this thread:
Zwena Thomas: But why u gotta be so difficult to deal with tho? Cant u just be normal? Smh...too much to put up with, ill pass if i was a guy
Khrystle: She's making normal behavior out to be something extraordinary because somewhere along the way she was told that women should not be emotional, worry, get angry, feel sad, feel uncertain, want attention, or just be human. She's talking about being human and men often have these same feelings but they express it differently. She believes she's difficult because someone who probably wasn't worth her time or really didn't give a damn told her she was. It's funny how the messages we receive shape the opinions we have of ourselves.
Nathan Bruce: This is the reason why most women like this are cronicly single. The fact that she had to explain her flaw is a testament to that.
Mary Stieff: We misconstrue some things to be flaws when they are natural human feelings and emotions. If you show emotion, you're too emotional. If you show hardly any, then your trying to be a man. Indecisiveness is a flaw because some of these men are real confused as to what they want. It won't necessarily be both ways. Usually, one or the other.
Jerome: Having flaws is human Mary Stieff & Khrystle Nichole, that's one thing, not having the humility or character to address and modify them are totally different, there should never be anything excessively difficult and incorrigible about a woman, NOTHING!!
Michael Moultrie: Life is too much a battle in the streets and in the corporate world to come home and put up with somebody who is supposed to be my other half. Dudes can have that type of woman.
Conclusion: Bragging about being difficult to love is not a good look, for men or women. People with this mindset weed themselves out of the dating pool, as they should.
