"Nojma Reflects
I know you have taken that infamous “Smack it up, flip it, rub it down, oh, no” verse to a new level. I mean you can do cartwheels; handstands, back flips, you just have all types of tricks in your stash. You just know that your sex is so good, that you can get anything you want from him right? While you do what you do, you’re thinking “yes I've got him, I am securing my position as his woman”, when in reality the “position” that you’re in is only securing the fact that in that moment, you are giving him PLEASURE. "Pleasure is fleeting" and if you have this mindset....then so are you."
I love a confident woman, one who's sure of herself and what she brings to the table, but some women think good sex is all it takes to keep a man. If he's thirsty like she is then yes, he'll stay around for that good good. A discerned brother that knows what he wants will understand that it takes more than good sex to keep him. Deep conversations about where the couple sees themselves 3, 5 years from now will always trump good good because both parties are concerned with the inner instead of the outer. Some people are too focused on pleasure instead of longevity. What if medical challenges say a couple can't have sex? Then that "good good" she once had will shrivel up and die. Either he's going to love her regardless or look for sexual pleasure outside the relationship. Good good isn't going to make a relationship last, it's communication and loyalty. If anything, sex is a bonus.
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