Reverse Psychology

Sometimes, it amazes me how relationships work. Two people show interest in each other and depending on the personalities, they may/may not be upfront. You could have one person that acts like they're not interested in which case, the woman has to step her game up to get him to notice her. The entire time she's thinking "What's wrong with me to where he's not interested? I need to throw myself at him a little more" Now this may or may not work, it depends on the person. To me, that's playing games because if you have to fake interest in order to get someone to notice you, you don't belong with anyone. Learn how to be real with your feelings and come again. If I'm checking for a woman, I'm going to be real about my desire for her. I'm going the extra mile to get and keep her because that's what a MAN does. A man will only chase a worthwhile woman, if a man's not interested in a certain woman he won't bother pursuing her because in his mind, she's not worth the chase. The same can be said for a woman interested in a man. I won't lie that reverse psychology does work because it keeps both on their toes, both parties are waiting on the other's next move. What some men and women fail to realize is that although there may be similarities, each person is unique and sometimes it's easier to "pick" up someone, but keeping them long-term is the real skill. Going further, it's easy to find a man/woman, hard to keep them because I've heard it said that what you did to get someone, you have to do to keep them. Personally, I would think she's a clown if she acted like she wasn't interested in me when she really was; the whole time I'm thinking "Miss, if you're interested in me, just say so." Nobody has time for games. Some people will keep it moving if you act like you aren't interested in them and rightfully so. Who wants to play games with someone when there's plenty fish in the sea?