Pre-Made Families

I can't be the only one noticing that pre-made families are becoming the norm. Many people you have romantic interest for are bringing kids from previous relationship into the mix. Makes me blessed NOT to have had children by the wrong woman. If you can't see yourself with someone long-term, you shouldn't lay down and have children with them. This is for those who don't care who they lay down with; they just want some of that good good. It seems like childless men & women are becoming extinct; you are hard pressed to find someone who doesn't have children. I'm not against having kids but if you're going to lay down with someone, make sure it's with someone you see yourself with long term. Too many children are being born out of wedlock. There was a time where couples WAITED until they got married and had good jobs before deciding to bring children in the mix, but now it's like find out if you're sexually compatible with a person before marriage. So you have to lay down with someone before you figure out whether you're compatible with them or not? That's backwards logic if I've ever heard some. A child comes into the world and boom, you two decide you aren't compatible and the child is left to suffer for the parents' stupidity. I approach relationships from an old-school stance: Get to know someone first before laying down with them in a marriage context. Besides, sexual activity between a married couple is more meaningful because the couple shares a part of themselves with the one they love; the person who takes good care of their heart and has the utmost respect for them. If a couple gets together with the best intentions and they decide to have children but the relationship still goes sour, then I can overlook that. Many times, you do see yourself with a person long term but one or both people mess it up somehow. You gotta do what's best for your child(ren) and if it means leaving that sorry man, so be it. This is for those who don't care who they lay down with, that's the nonsense I was referring to. Just creating babies en masse.