Oct 17, 2015

October 17, 2013: I Want To Be Ghetto

Richard Hudson
October 17, 2013 · Tallahassee, FL ·
Funniest thing in the world: People who grow up in good environments who WANT to be ghetto. So you want to trade nice homes and good schools for random automatic gunfire and police sirens? LOL at these folks. People who are truly hood will gladly trade places in a minute. Moral of the story: Appreciate the good start you had in life.

It's crazy, but some people really want to be ghetto. Why? Maybe they like hearing police sirens at 8pm nightly, or they get joy in seeing people shot down in the streets laying in blood. What about drug sales? Yeah I think that's it. Anyone who's lived/lives in the hood that's of sound mind will tell you they would move out the first chance they get. Nobody should want to raise a family in poverty & violence.

Oct 16, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Tired As Hell


As I read these strawberry letters about marital discord, I ask myself: Why do people sign up for marriage knowing THIS is the mess they have to deal with? In short, this man has lost love for his wife because she fell on hard times and refuses to get on her feet. Make it so bad, he's been financing her cheating since 2009, and he hasn't left yet. I know he doesn't want to leave because of the kids, but the children know what's up. They hear and see a lot going on with their parents, they just haven't said nothing. Anyway, this is my response:

What’s the point living with headaches day in and out? His life is filled with disappointment, grief, resentment, and that’s unhealthy. The vision of having someone in my atmosphere who makes me unhappy, has negative energy and no inspiration to do something meaningful with their life can’t form in my mind.
He's stayed too long and it’s time to let go of the nonsense.
His spouse (she’s not a wife) connects with guys because she needs a financial pillow. There’s nothing left when your spouse gives strangers more attention than their designated mate.
Maybe he's unsure how to get out of the marriage, but he’ll pay alimony and child support. HE'S allowed her to be unemployed for too long and his money accustomed her to a certain lifestyle.
People tend to say how “beautiful” their children are, but from what aspect? Children see, feel, and hear friction and conflict that their parents have. Your wife speaks only when she needs something and his daughters know they don’t get along.
I don’t advocate married couples staying together when people have to (1) Tolerate (2) Put Up With (3) Handle or (4) Deal With their mates. Some marriages weren’t meant to be, and it’s best he reclaims his freedom for PEACE OF MIND when it’s apparent that the marriage has ran its course.


 
 

Top 5 Tweets: Week of 5/12

You guys know what time it is, so no introduction is needed. 
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Oct 15, 2015

Passing Out Sex Like Candy


I want to send a special shout out to women who pass out sex to random men, then want to make the right guy wait. How can a woman make a man wait for something she passed out freely? That's silly because other dudes didn't have to wait to taste her cookies, but she wants to make the right guy wait. The point is being real about yourself. If you didn't make previous men wait, why would you make a decent guy wait? Be consistent. Don't make one man wait for something every other guy has tasted. The only explanation I can come up with is a decent guy coming into her life could motivate her to value herself more. He could make her understand that she doesn't have to give her stuff away to this & that guy. He wants to get to know HER, and not her body. If that's the case, then I salute her. She met the right man who wants to know what her heart is like instead of her mouth skills. I have no problem with a woman changing; In fact, it's encouraged. No woman should want to be a ho all her life. It's about consistency. If she's abstaining, great; If she's wreckless, that's fine too but the gist of what I'm saying is if you're going to let a few men smash, then let everyone smash. Don't be exclusive now. 

Oct 14, 2015

Busted!

The following video shows Ms. Crystal Duck being busted for cheating. Notice how she seems NOT to care like it doesn't bother her. Unfortunately, nonchalant behavior is commonplace for cheating offenders. Just goes to show you that there are foul people in life who don't care if they hurt others. Every time a man blasts his cheating woman on social media, there's always women defending her stupidity. SMH. Some women are saying he was wrong because he should've kept it private, but I say he's right because she needed to be exposed. She had no hesitation about cheating, so all of a sudden she wants privacy to handle their discord? She didn't care, why should he? I could say a lot more, but these videos say it all.

Encouragement

We all need encouragement from time to time, so this pic should suffice.

Oct 13, 2015

People Can Learn From Babies


Kiara Shantae Williams
October 11 at 12:55pm · 
❤You ever pay attention to how a baby acts around new people? Some babies cry, others just refuse to let you touch or hold them. You have to earn their trust before they will be open to letting you interact with them. Maybe babies are born with discernment, and can sense when something is off about a person. However, as they get older society teaches them not to fear people and trust everyone until they give them a reason not to, but in all reality it should be the other way around. With new people, we should be just how babies are until they prove themselves worthy of your trust.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.