Hondo Solomon's Proverbs

These are a list of quotes from a Facebook friend of mine named Hondo Solomon. This brother is very intelligent. Here We Go:

"Side chicks always want to be upgraded at some point because the man is focused on his real family."
~ Hondo Solomon

"Housewives and concubines over side chicks."
~ Hondo Solomon

"The time a man spends absorbing NBA League Pass is the same time he could be spending learning to pass his wealth to his future generations."
~ Hondo Solomon

"The energy a woman spends on being a side chick could be spent learning how to be a proper housewife."
~ Hondo Solomon

Men have a prime growth range from 18 until they are near 60. This highlights one reason older men want younger women (who only have a prime range of 16 to their late 20s) so their family line may continue in earnest. There's no point in having one woman of the same age who only gave you two children and you wanted 20.
Men, go polygynous.
Ladies, hypergamy is in order.

Ladies, if you believe it's attractive to be opinionated because you are "grown" and "have a mind of your own," why do men first notice the quiet, demure, and dainty women standing next to you and want to wife them ASAP?

A man must keep his own private study area and sleeping quarters in the home. This is important for his mental maintenance and periodic solitude. When time is needed with the wives, he may go in unto them and/or vice versa.

This one is really good:

Side chick psychology is backward and upended, makes no sense and has no relation to reality. Thus, side chicks believe because a man has sex with them and gives them money, that he will eventually marry them.

Two important facts are overlooked by side chicks:

(1) You are a side chick and are there for sex and possible arm candy status.
(2) The man in question will never marry you...Because you are there for sex and possible arm candy status.
Shouts out to all the side chicks.
Stay in your lane.

Side chicks always want to be upgraded at some point because the man is focused on his real family.

The women who rail against polygyny the most, boasting they will never be a man's other woman, are the same ones who are presently a man's other woman.

I'm Coming Out

 

Diana Ross dropped this very song the year I was born, in 1980. It was to signal gays & lesbians coming out to the world. When I hear this song, I think of Jason Collins, the NBA player who announced he was gay to the entire nation. He got congratulatory calls from President Obama & his wife, and other influential people. The irony is Tim Tebow announcing his Christianity, and Tebow gets criticized. When Jason Collins came out, amens & hallelujahs. A picture is going around Facebook showing a picture of Tebow and Jason Collins. Jason Collins has a choir backing him singing praises, and Tebow has duct tape over his mouth, as the world is saying: Big deal. My issue is gays have no problem coming out, so why are some Christians shook? I touched on this in a previous blog, and it bears repeating: Some Christians are cowards. They keep their Christianity on the low to keep from being persecuted. Jesus was persecuted, so what makes you think Christians won't face the same? Today's world is living proof. The Bible does say if you deny me in front of man, he (God) will deny us (Christians) in front of his father. If you ask me, it's bonkers. If homosexuals can come out, what's Christians' excuse? One of my church's pastors delivered a powerful message on this very subject. To paraphrase yesterday's sermon, he said: Homosexuals have more guts than Christians because they have no shame in announcing their sexuality to the world, but some Christians don't come out because they don't want that persecution. I will admit, it's shameful that you can discuss everything but Jesus is the ONE thing you can't mention. Why? Because that name is powerful. One utterance of Jesus and people are shook. The world is threatened by the powerful name of Jesus so that's why they do everything in their power to stamp God out of every societal realm. You would think that Christians (God's chosen people) would represent for him, which many do. When it comes to taking a stand for Christianity, some Christians miss the mark because they co-sign foolery instead of checking it. There's an old adage and it rings true: If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.

First 48 Making Miami Look Bad? Negative.

http://www.miaminewtimes.com/2013-03-28/news/uncle-luke-the-first-48-gives-black-miami-a-bad-rap/full/

 

I've been watching First 48 since it's inception. Each week, a different city is profiled. The show is about detectives working to solve a murder within the First 48 hours, hence the show title. Miami has been regularly featured on the murder series for a while now, and the episodes always take place in these neighborhoods: Overtown, Liberty City, and Little Haiti. Seldom will you have a First 48 episode take place in Miami Gardens (although there has been one show where a murder was profiled there). The bulk of Miami's violence can be traced to those 3 areas, so it makes sense to profile murders in those 3 neighborhoods. Let's be honest, do Overtown, Liberty City and Little Haiti residents object to their neighborhood being profiled? Negative. Having your city featured on First 48 is attaining superstardom, because outsiders know how hardcore your city is. The show does feature residents cooperating with the police to catch the murderer(s), so it must have a purpose. Luke makes good points, especially about the show doing nothing to show why inner-city blacks are shooting each other. It's not hard to figure out: Little or no education, poverty and hopelessness all contribute to black on black murder. Think about it, how many successful blacks go out and commit crimes? None, because there's too much to lose. Black Miami has been in trouble since the late 80's/early 90's, with drug gangs like Boobie Boys, Thomas Family and John Doe that wreaked havoc on the Miami streets. In closing, The First 48 does not make black Miami look bad. The show does a good job of showing what life is like for inner-city Miami residents.

National Prayer Day

Every year, around this time is the National Day Of Prayer. It starts with a week of Bible reading at all Capitol buildings across the nation, followed by prayer day on Thursday. Christians from all across the nation lift America up in prayer. What issues some Christians pray about is on them. I feel this way: Every day should be national Prayer Day for each Christian. Why should a day be set aside for Christians to do what should be done every day? I see the reason behind National Prayer Day, but I feel Christians should pray daily (many Christians, myself included already do). Some of the issues I pray about are unemployment, economic recovery, people suffering with disabilities, black on black genocide, gay agenda, etc. I take authority over this gay agenda in Jesus Name! Perversion and Uncleanness must cease & desist immediately. On the flip side, I see the National Prayer Day as an opportunity for God's children to intercede on behalf of America. Let's keep it 100, America has turned it's back on God. It's going to take prayer warriors interceding on behalf of America, followed by action in order to get America back on track. I don't need to participate in National Day Of Prayer, because I pray daily and read God's word. As long as Christians pray daily & stay rooted in God's word, then National Day Of Prayer is icing on the cake. It's like reading God's word on Sunday and expecting to get through the week; not going to happen. Prayer should be a constant activity, not an annual event.

Should You Date Outside Your Race To Find Happiness?

 

I hear all this talk about brothers going outside of their race to find happiness. Black women aren't this, that and the third. How many times can you play the same song before it gets tired? If some black men feel like they'll be happy with a woman of another race/ethnicity, more power to them. Do what makes you happy. I'm tired of some black men and women complaining about each other. BOTH BLACK MEN & WOMEN need to cut this foolishness out, because both are in the same boat as far as the difficulty of finding a suitable mate. There's not much, if any, that I disagree with in Tommy's video. Many times, the same arguments are recycled: Black women are too mean, too needy, argumentative, ghetto. Black men are jailbirds, can't keep a job, too immature, mama's boys, etc. There are no original arguments for black men/women dating outside of their race. One difference I notice is when black women date outside the race, THEY DO IT with no public service announcement. Some black men make a spectacle of their decision to date outside the race. Let's use a sports analogy: When Lebron James was drafted to Miami Heat from Cleveland, he made a big media spectacle about it. This angered Cleveland fans because they felt like Lebron turned his back on the team. Lebron wouldn't have gotten the flak he did if he would have kept his decision on the low. I said that to say this: Too many people don't want to do soul-searching to figure out why THEY keep having failed relationships. Wherever you go, YOU are the common denominator.

Men & Women: TIGHTEN UP

The following is from the Grown Man Logic Facebook page. It puts MEN & WOMEN on blast for their promiscuity, and goes into detail how some women have themselves to blame if they choose not to see the writing on the wall.

 

I’m really sick of all the men saying women are hoes, sluts and/or tramps. Newsflash, someone has to be sexing them and guess what, it’s us men. Then after doing so and finding out your homeboy or crew already hit, all of a sudden she is a hoe or slut. She wasn't that when you were calling her whenever you wanted some. Oh yea men, when you're being selfish and simply about getting yours, more times than not you didn’t satisfy her, but yet you think you're the man in bed. I’m willing to bet the biggest hoe you know or think you know has slept with less people than you, so what does that make you exactly? You men are so tired of hoes, well, blame your fellow males for continuing the trend giving attention, buying things, boosting egos and sexing these so called hoes, so don’t look for change because it’s not happening! MEN: DO BETTER!

I'm really sick of all the women saying men are dogs, players and no good. Newsflash, for each and every female that allows poor treatment, disrespectful behavior, any type of abuse, taking him back when cheating, etc, it is you who continues this cycle because you all are the ones allowing this to happen staying with a man who should be kicked to the curb. Quit telling yourself ‘but I love him’ and using it as a excuse or justification for his ignorant ways, poor treatment and inconsistent behavior. Have more love for yourself and lose the loser. If you don’t get rid of him, then blame yourself and all the other women unable to do so for not reading the writing on the wall when the signs are always there, thinking he is going to change or somehow you’re the one who he will change for because it’s not happening! WOMEN: DO BETTER!

 

My $.02: Why someone would sleep with a person that others have ran up in & through is silly. Sloppy seconds, thirds, or fourths are not the move.



Simp Men: By Enigmatic Opinion

The following commentary is by Mr. Enigmatic Opinion. He goes into detail about the word Simp. Read On.

 

MrEnigmatic Opinion
Simp men. I don't attack this word because I just woke up one day and decided that I don't like the word "simp" or the definition behind the word. Simps exist in all races, therefore it can hardly be considered a racial issue. Black men being so-called "simps" is not the sickness, it is however, a symptom of a greater "sickness" in black men. Attacking "simp" men is like giving someone aspirin for a headache, when he actually has a brain tumor. There is a larger reason why black American men reduce their value in order to hold onto an undeserving woman. For a man to cling to an unworthy woman, and deal with her belligerence, shows an extreme lack of confidence and self esteem. Self esteem in a man is not built the same way it is built in a woman.
For instance, a man typically does not have low self esteem because of his physical appearance. A man does not have to feel "beautiful" in order to be confident in his relationship with women. Black men are "simps" because of their lack of self fulfillment in their status/position in society. Because so many black American men have few personal accomplishments. This lack of self esteem is caused by the high school dropout rates amongst black American men, high unemployment, and lack of financial independence. Their lack of confidence cannot be eliminated by calling them "simps" over and over again. A confident and successful black man is less likely to exhibit a lack of confidence in his relations with women, and a mans confidence can only be built through his own personal fulfillment and his own successes. In other words, he does not look to have a woman (make him a valuable man). Black men must seek fulfillment in intellectual obtainment and personal goals, none of which has anything to do with women. So you see, being a "simp" is not the problem, it is a symptom of a much greater issue amongst black men. To believe being a "simp" is the biggest issue, is just reducing a much larger issue to something small and petty.