Can a woman be too nice to the point where it's a turnoff? Is there such thing as too nice, cooperative, etc? That depends on the man. I can't speak for other men, but I'll take a cooperative & nice woman anyday. I don't have time to be combative with my lady, that's for the birds. I don't know why, but some men actually prefer a woman that'll give them a challenge. When you get a challenging woman, you'll definitely get more than you asked for. Even if you're doing your job as a man, she'll find something to buck up against you about. Unless you're ready for her to always speak her mind (even when it's not warranted at times), you'll be better off with the nice & cooperative woman. Nice & cooperative doesn't mean docile, it means that she has her own mind, but trusts her man to lead in the right direction. Most people confuse cooperative with docile.
A man has the right to desire whatever woman he chooses, according to his personality. A strong man wants a strong woman, and a chill man wants a chill woman; to each their own. I'm strong & meek when needed. I don't have to thump my chest to prove I'm a strong man; it speaks for itself. Most men will desire a nice & cooperative woman, and why wouldn't they? A man goes to war outside his home: He deals with stress from his job, loved ones, etc. The last thing a man should be getting stress is from his woman. If a man says with a straight face that he loves a combative woman, then he has no right to complain about her nature. He likes her combativeness, remember? A woman that's "too nice" & cooperative runs circles about a combative lady because that nice & cooperative woman is committed to building with him, not against him.
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