On Her Back

Today's message is titled On Her Back. Women talk about carrying weight on their own, but that weight feels good when she's on her back. What do I mean by this? It's simple. The majority of black children are born to single moms, with the father nowhere in sight. I can't respect a man that hits it and runs. You helped make the child, stay around to raise it. There's a new organization that's rapidly growing, and it's called the On Her Back committee. The On Her Back Committee is comprised of several women that talk about carrying the weight on their own, but when she's on her back, that weight feels good. She lays down with some random (man), then gets upset when he vanishes into thin air. I find it hard to sympathize with jaded women because she bit on his bait. He lifted her up, just to break her down later; that's an old-school pimp move. After he's gotten what he wanted from her, he's gone. Very few men are going to pursue a long-term relationship with a woman they've slept with, unless there's strong feelings between them. That's not all, some women talk about carrying weight on their own just so they can have a reason to say how strong they are. True strength isn't broadcasted, it's shown in silence. Nobody's supposed to know what you're going through, except you and God. Believe it or not, many people secretly are happy for your struggle because that means they're doing better than you. Here's a few sample statements: I'm carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders, I'm strong & independent, I'm this, that, and the third. Ok...who is she trying to impress? Sure, her carrying the weight may be legit, but that's stuff you keep to yourself. I feel bad for women who have to do things on their own, but sometimes, they willingly choose to carry that weight. Then again, I think some women carry weight long enough to allow a man to relive her, just so he can get her on her back. Women need to understand that It's ok for a woman to be on her back, WITHOUT the weight of a man. What I mean by on her back, is relaxing without a care in the world.