Women like to say what a real man does/is, and men do the same thing (explain what a real woman does/is). Both genders are correct. Here's a list of Real Men vs. Real Women statements:
1. Real Men Don't Hit Women, even if she's trying to kill him-Some women love to throw this in a man's face when he's trying to defend himself. The sad thing is, some women do this because the law is on their side. Put their hands on a man, he can't hit her back or he'll get locked up. Not to mention that some women are spiteful, so they can make a man's life hell just out of spite.
2. Real Men Cater To A Woman-If she makes his life better, why wouldn't he want to give her the world? Here's the catch: The woman has to be worthy, because no man in his right mind should go all out for a woman that's NOT doing anything for him.
3. Real Men Don't Argue With A Woman-I don't know where this one came from, but it has lame written over it. No man is going to let ANYONE (especially a woman) get jazzy at the mouth with him. According to some women, a man is a man if he lets a woman talk crazy to him. Everytime a man is critical of a woman: He's bitter & gay, hates his mother, hates women. Deflection is a favorite tool to draw the focus off oneself. Personally, I don't have time to go back & forth with a woman. If she wants to act stupid, she can act a fool by herself.
4. The Bible Says...A Man Is Supposed To (insert Bible verse about what a man is supposed to do)-This one here is a trip. Yes, the Bible does outline man's responsibilities, BUT the Bible also says what a woman is SUPPOSED to do. I see why many men want nothing to do with some Christian women, because many of them can quote scripture about what man should be doing, but when it comes to a woman's role, they leave that part out.
5. Real Women Take Care Of Their Man-Self explanatory. When I say "take care of their man", I mean someone you're married to. So many people take care of each other husband & wife style, then there's nothing left for marriage. A man or woman IS NOT obligated to take care of their mate during the courting phase. When the couple gets engaged, I can see that; because they are getting ready to become married. To give husband benefits to your boyfriend is NO BUENO.
6. Real Women Support Their Man-Pretty obvious, if you ask me. Many women expect for their man to be on point before he steps to her, so why aren't women held to the same standard? The man has to support his lady in her dreams, but when he asks for her support while he's trying to make a better life for them, and it's going to take time, some women become impatient. Many women want microwave prosperity.
7. Real Women Are Great Cooks-Today's modern woman doesn't know how to cook, nor does she want to learn. Yet, she expects for her man to be a 5-star chef. Just like men should be expected to know how to cook, the same applies to women. Besides, what if the man doesn't feel like slinging pots & pans every day? If his woman knows her way around the kitchen, she can relieve him on some days.
8. Real Women Don't Argue-A man says what he has to say, and moves on. There are some women who don't like arguments, and that's good. Life is too short to go back & forth with someone, especially a person you take to be your partner. You can have disagreements without the cussing, name-calling, and other childish antics. Many women don't know how to argue without raising their voice. That's what turns men off, and causes them to walk away.
6. Real Women Support Their Man-Pretty obvious, if you ask me. Many women expect for their man to be on point before he steps to her, so why aren't women held to the same standard? The man has to support his lady in her dreams, but when he asks for her support while he's trying to make a better life for them, and it's going to take time, some women become impatient. Many women want microwave prosperity.
7. Real Women Are Great Cooks-Today's modern woman doesn't know how to cook, nor does she want to learn. Yet, she expects for her man to be a 5-star chef. Just like men should be expected to know how to cook, the same applies to women. Besides, what if the man doesn't feel like slinging pots & pans every day? If his woman knows her way around the kitchen, she can relieve him on some days.
8. Real Women Don't Argue-A man says what he has to say, and moves on. There are some women who don't like arguments, and that's good. Life is too short to go back & forth with someone, especially a person you take to be your partner. You can have disagreements without the cussing, name-calling, and other childish antics. Many women don't know how to argue without raising their voice. That's what turns men off, and causes them to walk away.
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