Who's The Real Enemy?

Military men don't have to worry about the Taliban trying to take them out overseas, for some military men it's their woman they have to be cautious of because while he's fighting for his country, she's home with the kids for months on end. Depending on how loyal a miltary wife is, she may be faced with cheating temptations because her man isn't there to give her the affection she needs/wants. My thing is, it's very noble for a man to fight for his country and military men and women have my utmost respect & admiration. For a man's wife to cheat while he's overseas defending our nation's freedom is reprehensible. If she's that hard up for attention, maybe she shouldn't have gotten involved with him. When a woman is with a military man, she has to be strong enough to accept him being away for months or years at a time and be able to hold the house down in his absence. Military wives are some of the strongest women around because while their husband is serving our country, she's home running the house and making sure the kids are taken care of. Over time, some military wives get used to their husbands being away so they use his absence as "me" time. In the back of his mind, he is concerned with his wife scheming to run off with his money and children. There are many stories were men have come back from deployment to find out their wives are pregnant by another  man. He's looking crazy the entire time and probably at a loss for words. Now, he has to pay child support for a child that's not his. What kind of foolishness is that? He's fighting for his country and she decides to be a ho and spread eagle for another man.