"Nojma Reflects
Listen to the blatant hatred we exude towards Black Men. Black Men ain’t s***; Black men are dogs". With this mindset you will definitely chase black men away. Sometimes, as women, we are so harsh in how we discuss our feelings and misgivings about Black men, we forget how much they are beaten up in every other aspect of life.
We have to stop allowing our insecurity about finding a good man manifest into negative attitudes toward all black men. We ask where are all the good black men, but brothers can rightfully ask where are all the good black WOMEN?"
Some women don't want the script flipped on them. They want to be the ones asking "where are the good black men?" Good black men are all around, but they pay close attention to the belligerent antics of some black women that they refuse to deal with any drama. A real man doesn't want a drama queen because she's going to make his life miserable at every turn. I loved this message from Nojma Reflects because it was spot on. Just like good black women deserve a good man, the reverse is true for black men; they deserve a good woman that will respect & cherish them.
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