False Prophets

The Bible speaks of false prophets, those who come under the guise of righteousness and deceive Christians and others away from godly standards. The following paragraph I'm about to post sheds light on a troubling phenomenon:

 

Bishop Carlton Pearson

Celibacy is neither natural nor normal! Humans are not wired for it long term and barely short. To impose it on people who feel called to ministry, straight or gay, is irresponsible, outdated and unnecessary. So far it hasn't worked overall and I don't expect it will or even should. Obviously it has and continues to create huge problems within the Catholic church and has caused painful experiences of abuse for both victims and perpetrators. It seems to me, both insane and obscene, to continue the practice. The present circumstances related to abuse within the priesthood of the Roman Catholic church, insist it should reconsider its position on celibacy and its effect upon, or aversion to, effective ministry and service to the people and purpose to which it is called.

 

My View: Let me get this straight, celibacy is neither natural or normal? I know the Bible says be fruitful and multiply, but that's in marriage context. The Bible doesn't give people a pass to lay it low & spread it wide; that's what's happening in today's world. If more people were celibate, there wouldn't be children born out of wedlock, no sexually transmitted diseases, etc. According to this so-called Bishop (I'm serious about the so-called term, by the way.), people are supposed to sex anything with a pulse. It's that mindset that's why 70% of children are born out of wedlock to single parents, sexually transmitted diseases are prevalent, etc; but YET & STILL, celibacy isn't natural or normal. Here's a brief history on Bishop Carlton Pearson: He went from being a HIGHLY respected Preacher/ Bishop (used to run the Azusa Conference annually) who believed in the unadulterated Word of God to getting on the "Inclusive/ Inclusion" "religion" train. (don't believe that people will go to hell, etc, etc....) Beware of False Prophets who speak Lies...I don't know what his true point is. He says Humans are not wired for Celibacy. Since the Beginning its been a sin to have sex outside of Marrige. Just because many have done it, it should be OK Now. What's next, Murder, many have committed this one too. Should we take it off of the Sin List as well. Next is Stealing, Lying, Idol Worship, etc, sounds like justification of sin.



Famous Quotes/Catchphrases

 

This is a list of memorable quotes or sayings my Facebook friends have made. Here Goes:

"Powdering the behind"-Richard (myself)

"The Big Dog keeps hypersensitive folks in check"-Jerome Bolden

"Women expect men to give them the world without a passport"-Myself

"I don't care who slighted"-Jerome Bolden

"The Lightening Rod strikes simps and b*****s with deadly accuracy!"-Trina Rogers

"Plumbing business is booming in the black community, due to the clogged drains from all the weave"-Lee Groves

"Somebody needs to start an organization called Black Girls Act Right"-Tee Wallbanger
"I Don't give two shakes of a rat's behind"-Kiara Williams
"They can't cooperate, they will be replaced"-Jerome Bolden
"If she can't act right, she gotta take flight"-Jerome Bolden


A Real Woman

 

Also taken from the Facebook page Grown Man Logic: A REAL WOMAN is a God fearing woman of morals, ethics, values, is able to leave something to the imagination that possesses an air of sophistication and class. She understands her independence, knows her worth and has enough sense to know if a man is feeding her nonsense. She is hard working, treats people with respect, expresses gratitude when deserved, appreciates the finer things along with the little things life and people offer. She takes pride in her body and does not or easily allow men to even enter her domain or realm in that physical aspect until it is known that her man of interest is truly interested. She’s confident, understands beauty is within and doesn’t need to brag about looks or anything pertaining to herself because it is shown by the way she carries herself and her daily actions. She is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional or verbal) with her head held high! Are you a REAL WOMAN?

My View: Emphasis on the last sentence: She is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional, or verbal). I feel bad for some women who stay in abusive relationships, but I can't feel sorry for any woman who allows herself to be abused repeatedly. At some point, she has to buck up and get out of there, even if her life may be at risk. She has her father, male friends and other male relatives that will put Boots To Behind on the abuser.



A Real Man

The following is a very good explanation of what a real man should be. I got this from the Facebook page Grown Man Logic (If you're on Facebook, like his page). Without further ado: A REAL MAN is a man who is God centered, values his word and is 100% accountable for his actions. He is the backbone of his family if he has one and is hard working. He is reliable so when he is needed in any shape or form, he is able to come through with a solution, resolution, or compromise. He understands what is most important and what isn’t. He is a role model for not only his kids but all youth. A real man knows when to speak, when to listen and doesn’t partake in gossip. He gives his all in whatever he does, does what’s right even when it’s unpopular and treats all women with respect! He is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse (physical, emotional or verbal) with his head held high! Are you a REAL MAN? 

My $.02: This is the best definition I have read about a real man. In a nutshell, a real man stands for what he believes in, doesn't cave under pressure and keeps God at the forefront. I like the last sentence "He is strong enough to walk away at the first sign of cheating or abuse. This coincides with what I believe: Anyone who stays with someone that abuses them has serious issues. It's not love when someone's going upside your head or dogging you.



R.I.P. To Manhood

 

I'm reluctant to write about this picture, but I have to put these moist men on blast. First off, under no circumstances is it EVER acceptable for a man to be this fruity. Look at this dude, he's wearing boyshorts and embracing his moistness. Come On Now! This man has hips like a grown woman (I hope this is photoshopped). This fruity, homosexual agenda has to cease & desist, and I bind this perversion in the name of Jesus. I take authority over all men who DO NOT embrace manhood, and I command this fruity spirit to loose itself from this man and those like him. It's safe to say that manhood is on the decline, because old-school men would never be this fruity. Ever since this homosexual agenda has been pushed, more and more gays are open about their sexuality and flaunting it like the mess isn't wrong. When that fire & brimstone hit, I feel for some folks because it's a wrap for them. I'm wagering this man didn't have a father growing up, leaving his single mother to raise him. No man with a strong father figure would allow his son to turn out like this. Some fathers will disown their sons if he was into being fruity like this man. This nonsense is crazy. The reason why I say R.I.P. To Manhood is because moist men are replacing manly men. One of my Facebook friends calls today's man, the new woman. You have women embracing manly principles and men embracing womanhood. The game has been twisted, and I don't like it one iota.

I Want To Be Like Nicki Minaj

 

Nojma Reflects

February 19

So...this picture was emailed to me, and supposedly this is supposed to be the "new" Barbie Doll, though at this moment, I don't think that has been confirmed by Mattel. At any rate, the message attached to the email was that, I was the "perfect person" to declare and express my outrage at the depiction of Black Women that is negatively represented by this doll.

Sorry to disappoint you, but I am NOT outraged. A depiction is a "representation" and unfortunately this doll represents how some Black Women see themselves. I can name two public Black Women right off the top of my head, Lil Kim and Nicki Minaj. In fact, Nicki calls her fans Barbz and she calls herself the "Black Barbie Doll" and has taken several pictures wearing a blond weave and blue eyes.

Nicki also has a huge fan base that is not only limited to young girls, but grown women as well. So we have grown women calling themselves Barbz, and are imitating a woman that wants to be known as a plastic mold, hence the fake hair, eyes and things of  that nature.

I can also walk out of my house, into any store, mall or bank or wherever I go and see a Black Woman almost dressed identical to the doll, so why should I be outraged at what is a very accurate representation of some Black Women?

Whenever I write an article, the first and most consistent rebuttal of deflection is "well not all Black Women act like that", and I keep telling you that is irrelevant. There are ENOUGH Black Women that don't recognize the beauty of their skin, regardless of the tone, that don't recognize the beauty of their hair, regardless of the texture, that don't recognize the beauty, power and protection that comes with modesty, that don't appreciate the beauty of their own eyes, so they get blue contacts, or contacts to make their eyes lighter, because we still are digesting the inferiority complex that has been fed to us, and we still suffer from self hatred, so the doll represents an accurate portrayal of the percentage of Black Women that still suffer from all of the above.

If this image upsets you, then instead of looking at the Maker of the doll, maybe you should look at the MUSE.

 

My View: Some people want to emulate their favorite celebrity, but some black women take it TOO FAR. Dressing up to the T like Nicki Minaj, really? Whatever happened to being comfortable in your own skin? Nicki Minaj is just a puppet for the record industry; she's paid to dress like a Barbie just so young girls and grown women can gobble it up. The sad thing is that this doll is more authentic than many real life clowns. It's hilarious some women would want to emulate a doll! That's almost as ridiculous as some men emulating Diddy, Rick Ross, Jay-Z or Michael Jordan. I'm comfortable in my own skin, always have & will be. Don't get me wrong, I admire everyone who has paid their dues to get where they're at in life, but make sure you stay true to who you are. Somewhere down the line, class & style will have to come into play.

Pimp Confessions

It's a true story! What comes to mind first, the church, the women or the men?

*** LADIES BEWARE OF NEW MEN IN CHURCH ***......

CONFESSIONS OF A PIMP

I WAS TALKING ONE DAY TO A OLD SCHOOL PIMP.
HE BEGAN TO TELL ME HOW HE WAS ABLE TO PULL MANY WOMEN RIGHT OUT THE CHURCH AND USE THEM FOR HIS PERSONAL GAIN.
I THOUGH ABOUT ALL THAT HE SAID AND I WANTED TO SHARE THIS WITH MY SISTERS IN THE LORD .
MY SISTERS BE AWARE THERE ARE MANY OTHERS OUT THERE WITH THE SAME MENTALITY AS THIS OLD SCHOOL PIMP.

HERE IN DETAIL IS THE PLAN HE SHARED WITH ME.

I KNEW THAT THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN IN CHURCH WERE THERE BECAUSE THE CHURCH WAS THE LAST RESORT FOR THEM. THEY HAVE BEEN BEAT UP , DOGGED , AND BROKEN BY LIFE AND BY MEN. THE CHURCH IS THE ONLY PLACE OF SAFETY MANY OF THEM KNOW.

KNOWING THIS I WOULD DRIVE AROUND ON SUNDAY MORNINGS LOOKING FOR A CHURCH WITH A SMALL TO MEDIUM SIZED CONGREGATION.

I WOULD WAIT UNTIL I WAS SURE SERVICE HAD ALREADY STARTED, THEN QUIETLY SLIP IN AND SIT AS CLOSE TO THE BACKDOOR AS POSSIBLE.

I WOULD SHOW NO EMOTION BUT WOULD LOOK AS IF I AM INTERESTED IN WHAT THE PREACHER WAS SAYING.

WHEN OFFERING TIME CAME I WOULD UNFOLD MY MONEY AND WALK DOWN THE ISLE MAKING SURE MY $100.00 BILL WAS SEEN .

WHEN CHURCH WAS OVER I WOULD LEAVE IMMEDIATELY WITHOUT SHAKING ANY HANDS, OR SPEAKING TO ANYONE.

THIS ONE TACTIC WOULD AROUSE THE SINGLE WOMEN CURIOSITY.

NOW THEY ARE THINKING " WHO WAS THE GUY THAT CAME IN?"

THE NEXT SUNDAY I WOULD GO BACK AND REPEAT THE SAME ROUTINE BUT WHEN CHURCH IS OVER I HANG AROUND WAITING.

WHAT AM I WAITING FOR, I AM WAITING ON THAT ONE WOMAN WHO WILL START A CONVERSATION AND GIVE ME CERTAIN SIGNS.

WHEN SHE SHAKES MY HAND HOW DOES SHE DO IT? WILL SHE SHAKE MY HAND AND IMMEDIATELY REMOVE HERS...
 

OR

WILL SHE ALLOW ME TO HOLD ON TO HER HAND AND START CONVERSATION?

DOES SHE SMILE WHILE LOOKING ME IN MY EYES?

DOES SHE BAT HER EYELASHES, WHILE SMILING?

DOES SHE CONSTANTLY MOVE , OR FOCUS ON MY EYES AS WE MAKE CASUAL CONVERSATION?

NOW THIS CAN TAKE LESS THAN A MINUTE BUT FROM THAT SMALL MINUTE I CAN TELL IF SHE IS GOOD TO GO.

AFTER CASUAL CONVERSATION I LEAVE MAKING A NOTE OF HOW SHE LOOK AND NEXT WEEK I AM NOW LOOKING FOR HER.

THE NEXT SUNDAY I RETURN, WAIT UNTIL SERVICE IS OVER AND THEN I WALK DIRECTLY TO HER. I MUST MAKE SURE THAT ALL THE OTHER WOMEN SEE THIS . I WANT HER TO FEEL SPECIAL LIKE SHE IS THE ONLY PERSON IN THE WORLD AT THIS MOMENT.

I SHAKE HER HAND, AND HOLD ON TO IT FOR A BRIEF MOMENT. THEN THE COMPLIMENTS COME.
I MUST ASK HER " DID YOU DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT WITH YOUR HAIR, YOU LOOK GREAT TODAY"
HERE IS THE BIG ONE THAT WORKS ALMOST EVERY TIME.

CAN YOU TAKE ME TO MEET PASTOR?

SHE IS NOW COMFORTABLE WITH ME AND SHE IS READY TO TAKE ME TO MEET THE PASTOR OF THE CHURCH.

SHE INTRODUCES ME, AND I COMPLIMENT THE PASTOR ON HOW MUCH HIS SERMONS HAVE HELPED ME.
HE SHAKES MY HAND AND ASKS, "DO YOU HAVE A CHURCH HOME?"
I WILL REPLY WHILE LOOKING AT THE WOMAN............." NO I DON'T BUT I BELIEVE THE LORD HAS DIRECTED ME HERE" I AM SAYING THIS WHILE NEVER TAKING MY EYES OFF HER.

NOW EVERYONE THINKS, HE HAS FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER......THANK YOU JESUS GOD HAS SENT HER A HUSBAND.

THIS IS ALL PART OF THE PLAN. ITS PART OF THE GAME.

I GET HER PHONE NUMBER, CALL HER UP BECAUSE THERE ARE THINGS ABOUT THE WORD OF GOD I DON'T UNDERSTAND. GET A DINNER DATE TO DISCUSS SCRIPTURE, AND WINE AND DINE HER AND TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN.

AFTER ABOUT A MONTH OR TWO WE ARE HAVING SEX, YET SHE IS STILL ACTIVE IN THE CHURCH. WE ARE SLEEPING TOGETHER AT HER HOUSE AND SOMETIMES AT MY HOUSE.

I STOP GOING TO CHURCH BUT SEND MY OFFERING AND SOON I WILL CONVINCE HER TO STAY AT HOME WITH ME ONE SUNDAY KNOWING IF SHE MISSES ONE SUNDAY IT WILL BE EASY TO MISS ANOTHER ONE.

SOON THE ABUSE WILL START, AND AFTER THE ABUSE I GET INSIDE HER HEAD. I BREAK HER DOWN MENTALLY UNTIL SHE FEELS THAT SHE IS NOTHING AND UGLY AND WORTHLESS, AND I AM THE ONLY SALVATION FOR HER.

NOW IS THE TIME TO PUT HER TO WORK WHICH IS EASY.

I DRUG HER MAKE HER DEPENDENT ON ME AS THE SUPPLIER OF HER HIGH AND SHE IS NOW ON THE STROLL MAKING DADDY'S MONEY. WHATEVER I PUT INTO THIS INVESTMENT I GET BACK TEN FOLD. EASY MONEY!!

 

 

My View: Some men are predators so if it takes going to church to find their prey, that's what they do. If he had any sense, he would become a pastor; more money and women. He has a flock full of women he can guilt out of money. "Counseling Session" is a fancy way of showing her some attention so he can get up in it.