3 Wise Women: When Should A Woman Pay?

Repost: Question 2: After what number of dates should a woman offer to pay for the date after she’s been out on a couple of dates with the same guy?

This question is symbolic of what goes on in relationships today. Some feel the man should continue paying, others feel she should kick in. Depending on who initiated the date, to me that’s who should foot the bill. My response:

This is the problem with relationships: One person does all the giving while the other takes, takes and takes. Relationships like that WILL NOT last because they are built on selfishness. Regardless of who initiated the date, to expect one person to put in all the work is ridiculous. The other person doing the receiving has nothing to bring to the table. If a man is dropping $200 or more for dates on a woman he's probably not feeling, he's not very intelligent because who's to say if you spend $$$ on a woman, she'll be interested in you. You don't know. Ladies and Gentlemen, don't allow your mate to drive you broke.

Random Thoughts On Monday

Random Thoughts:

I will be alone before I hang with messy people. Their toxic nature will rub off on you if you allow.

For some reason, extroverted people are bothered by introverts who don’t need acceptance from the masses.

If you went to high school with someone, but you never spoke to them, do you really remember them?🤔 

People Don’t Like Me Because I’m Anointed Or….

Repost: Charity Israel

I wish we would stop the "people don't like you because you're anointed" preaching/conversations.  Truth is some people don't like you because you could be mean, self-centered,  controlling,  angry, bitter, arrogant, insecure, ignorant, irresponsible,  lack integrity, a liar, inconsistent, unreliable, etc. Also, they could not like you simply because your personality, not your anointing, is not likeable to them. This doesn't make you or them bad. Truth is, every human has a right not to like a person, and it does not mean they have a demon because they don't like you. 

For those of you who seem to be obsessed with those who do not like you, and you work overtime trying to get everyone to like you:  I encourage you to put that energy into those who do like you. More importantly let God's love and you liking you be what matters most. People are too fickle to build your life around them liking you or not. Now go in peace ✌️ ❤️ ! 

I felt this. I’m over people liking me because I feel if I haven’t mistreated them, they have a right to dislike me. It’s not making me lose sleep because it’s less drama for me. While it’s true that sometimes a person is disliked for their anointing, many times it’s for the reasons above. Either way, be ok with people not liking you. People are too fickle to bank your favor on.

Biological Father vs. Stepdad

Fathers who aren’t involved in their children’s lives can not dictate how their kids are raised, especially if another man steps in to raise YOUR children. 

Friday Message: Other People’s Insecurity Is Not Your Problem

 Repost (Britteny Brown Inspiration Coach)

It really bothers people when you're comfortable with yourself. They start feeling like you think you're perfect or above the next person... their insecurity is not your problem.

3 Prophetic insights for 2023 | Crypto is not enough

This is Prophet Tomi Arayomi, someone I follow on YouTube, and a lot of gems were dropped. Many of the gems dropped were telling people to get their finances together in case of an economic collapse. This ties into the Bible story about the 5 foolish and wise virgins: The 5 wise virgins made preparations so they stacked oil, the 5 foolish waited until the last minute to get ready, so they were caught slipping. Because the 5 foolish virgins were caught lacking, they depended on the wise to hook them up, but aht aht...the wise had to turn away the foolish virgins because the wise didn't have enough for themselves and the foolish virgins. That Biblical parable ties into today because prophet Arayomi is telling people to get their finances ready: pay off debt, invest, save, etc.

The next gem he dropped was getting rid of foolish friends. Friendship is fine, but if those friends are keeping you from your purpose, drop them. This really stood out to me: Don't make friends, choose friends. I've never heard friendship described like that before. For me, the only friend I have is Jesus, and I'm good with him being my solo friend. At this point in my life, I'm on a mission & I won't let anyone in who's bad for me; my purpose is too valuable for that. It annoys me when I let someone in & the energy isn't right. It's tough for me to consider someone a friend if I haven't invested time with them.

I pray this blog post & prophetic message reaches people, and causes them to get ready, but if not...all I can do is promote this prophecy. What people do is on them. I felt led to share this.

Wednesday Gospel

There's always a motive behind what people say, do and ask of you-Anonymous elderly woman.

 Doing what I have to do in order to make a better way for myself. I'm on my hustle, I'm on my grind.