Nov 24, 2015

Enemies, Now Besties


I'm telling y'all, it's hilarious to see fake people acting like best friends. Not too long ago, they were into it with each other and now all of a sudden, they're best friends. Some of us with critical thinking skills know that deep down, you two don't like each other. The only reason you two are faking friendship is for professional or personal reasons. Both of you has something the other wants so y'all are basically using each other for personal gain. I don't co-sign phoniness; If I don't like you, you'll know it by how I distance myself. I don't have to tell someone I don't like them, my fall back game is on point to where they're dead to me. We can be in the same room, and I won't acknowledge their presence unless necessary. Even then, contact is very low, if non-existent.
You don't have to tell somebody you don't like them, just keep your distance and move forward. I don't understand how some folks can keep friendship facades going. These people keke with each other, then dog each other to their friends. Make it so bad, THEIR true friends see right through their mess but they don't say anything. They're saying to themselves "Does (s)he really think we're slow? Stop It." People really need to keep it real with themselves. It's ok to dislike some people; not everyone will like you and vice versa. Nothing wrong with that. What's wrong is kekeing with someone you're into it with, knowing both of you are going to dog each other behind closed doors. People are funny with the fakery.
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Nov 23, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Triangle Of Frustration

She's kidding herself. These guys are telling her, but she's not listening. They can not see spending their lives with her. She should reread what she wrote:
"Each has professed their love for me and told me that they can see us spending the rest of our live together (my self and each of the respectively) the problem is the single dad doesn’t want us together cause he is afraid of hurting me and ruining the friendship, and the navy man is afraid that we have changed to much to work now even though we know we wold fit together."

They “professed” their love for her, but neither put into action.
“the single dad doesn’t want us together because he is afraid of hurting me and ruining the friendship” – that means he’s still a hoe. He doesn’t want her falling in love with him because he won't reciprocate.
“The military man who helps everybody” – guaranteed paycheck and military benefits. He probably told her he sends money home, or in a passing conversation how he helped a family member or two pay a bill. He’s on active duty; traveling the world and he’s not going to limit himself to you when he can have his share of women (or men) in every state drooling over him. “The navy man is afraid” – no, he’s not. This is not a dilemma for him, what does he have to be afraid of?  He’s not worrying about this.
High school is the past, let the memories keep her heart smiling and be about her business with them as platonic friends. Stop trying to make something be what it's not meant to be. They have their lives and they’re fine WITHOUT her. They’re not trying to be with her.
She's a good example of how some women have multiple kids by many men or trick males with twerk skills into marrying her. And, the end result is hate.
Being in the middle means they would’ve proposed WITH AN ENGAGEMENT RING, they would’ve incorporated her in their FUTURE (shared accounts), both would consistently be in contact with her, both would lavish her with unsolicited gifts, she’d have a direct line with their mother and immediate family members, etc.
There’s nothing in the middle.
She should stop thinking she needs a  “man” to complete her or make her feel good about herself. Re-evaluate her life and find out where you want to be in 5-15 years from now. She should love herself enough to have standards so she won't be duped by guys like this.
They both gave her excuses & told her in a nice way to keep it moving.



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Nov 20, 2015

Gossip Folks, Pt. 2

Want to get on my nerves? GOSSIP. You don't have to gossip about me and my loved ones, but just being a chatterbox is the fastest way for me to get annoyed. The way I'm set up, I don't have time for gossip because if someone's willing to gossip to me, they're willing to gossip about me. Let's be clear: I don't care if I'm talked about (good or bad); folks talked about Jesus, so I'm not exempt. I figure I'm important enough for some folks to keep my name in their mouths, so keep on making me famous. What happened to saying what you have to say TO someone? Are people such cowards to where they can't stand behind their comments? Sounds like it to me with all this he say, she say foolishness going on. Gossip is juvenile for one reason: When the recipient finds out and confronts the person spreading the gossip, the other person changes their story because they know they could be in for it. Some of you should have outgrown that he say, she say nonsense. Get it from the source instead of listening to gossip. I forgot, that's too much like right for some people; they don't want to hear the truth because they're so used to hearing feces coming out of someone's mouth.
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Nov 19, 2015

Top 6

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Nov 18, 2015

Let It Go? Negative


Someone may be able to recover from their hurt, but their loved ones may not let that offense go unpunished. Let me give an example: 1. A loved one was murdered and once the family gets wind of their fallen loved one, revenge is on their mind. They're not thinking about contacting authorities, they're seeing red because they want payback for their murdered loved one. The family has every right to take revenge on behalf of their murdered loved one. (S)he didn't ask to leave this world prematurely, but they were violently killed for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. The family spends days & weeks looking for the murderer until one day, they catch him and give him that shotgun work.
One shot to the head and chest is all it takes and the murderer has been taken out. The family got their revenge and can sleep a little better knowing their loved one did not die in vain. Just because you've forgiven someone for hurting you, that doesn't mean your family members will. Sometimes, your loved ones are so bent on revenge that even if you tell them not to take action, they'll still exact justice. They're looking out for you, and they hate to see you hurting so in their minds, they're justified in paying the offender(s) a visit. I pray I'm never faced with a situation where I have to seek revenge, but if I am..well, the offense would have to be very grave. There are some offenses you cannot let go.
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Nov 16, 2015

RHOA Season 8

The following tweets are what I posted from last night's Atlanta Housewives episode.
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Nov 14, 2015

No Chill

The First 4 tweets are how I felt earlier today, these were dropped minutes apart.
When I watched this First 48 Episode, I was like: You have to have no chill to shoot into a crowd. New Orleans was out of control in this episode.
I don't know what's in the MS River in New Orleans when some woman bit a woman's eye socket out.
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