Aug 31, 2015

Foreign-born drug lords vs. Black drug kingpins

I've noticed a few differences between foreign drug lords and black drug lords: Black drug lords don't have the business mind that kingpins like Pablo Escobar & Griselda Blanco had. Escobar and Blanco used their money for legit business ventures, and they had cops and politicians on their payroll, so they had to pay them off to have free reign. Plus, they were very careful who they let get close to them. Not all, but a lot of black drug lords will let Ray Ray & nem, and his boys in the crew, not knowing these dudes could be undercover rats. The #1 rule to the game is watch the people around you. What's the first thing a black hustler does when he gets money? He gets flashy. Foreign born drug lords are low-key, they don't like a lot of attention, so they have their goon squad do their dirty work for them. Foreign-born kingpins will rarely step in because they have a team of capable hit men ready at all costs. 
Black drug lords are more hands-on, they like to lead by example: Look at folks like Frank Lucas, Nicky Barnes, Freeway Rick Ross, those dudes weren't above getting down for theirs with their squad. I've also noticed that foreign-born drug kingpins had police and some
government officials on their payroll, so they had free reign. Black drug bosses, not so much. Black drug lords rely on residents in their hoods not to go to the police, and a lot of citizens don't, largely due to mistrust between the cops and inner-city residents. As crazy as this sounds, black drug lords do more for residents in their hoods by helping single moms with rent and food, they buy children school clothes, etc. The subsequent violence that follows in the drug world is what gets a lot of kingpins jammed up because 9 times out of 10, someone rats them out to authorities.

Movie Review: War Room

I'm going to review the Christian film War Room. War Room has been promoted among Christian circles for a few weeks leading up to Friday's movie release. I saw it Saturday morning and wasn't disappointed. The movie was 2 hours, but it was worth it. The theme of the movie is that prayer is a powerful weapon. Tony and Elizabeth Jordan have it all—great jobs, a beautiful daughter, and their dream house. Appearances can be deceiving; Tony and Elizabeth Jordan’s world is crumbling under the strain of a failing marriage. This couple was attacked on all fronts by Satan: The only communication Tony and Elizabeth Jordan had was when they were fighting. They both threw shade at each other, and at times they wouldn't say one word to each other even though they lived in the same house. Watching the movie, you can sense the friction between Tony & Elizabeth Jordan.
Their daughter senses the tension between them and as she's talking with her friend Jennifer, Elizabeth overhears her daughter wishing her parents could learn how to love each other again. Tony's not only treating his wife like an enemy, but he's acting distant towards his daughter. Kids know when their parents are acting funny towards each other: Less interaction than usual, one or both parents throwing shade at each other, or in worst cases, open warfare between each other. An older woman looks into buying another home and Elizabeth is her realtor. What starts off as a showcase, turns into a friendship between Elizabeth and this older woman. The older woman gets Elizabeth to open up about her marriage, and as soon as she starts venting about how bad her husband is, the elderly woman stops her dead in her tracks and asks her: What about you?
The elderly woman causes Elizabeth to work on herself instead of trying to fix her husband. Under the woman's guidance, Elizabeth does her fighting in prayer and as soon as she does, she starts seeing changes in herself and her husband. Elizabeth's daughter shares a prayer room with her mother, and there's a scene of them praying together in the prayer room. Tony Jordan gets real with God and confesses his sins. He goes on a dinner date with an attractive colleague, and as they're talking, Tony gets an uneasy feeling and goes to the bathroom to clear his head. He can't go through with cheating on his wife, so he cuts the relationship off. He comes home one evening and decides to confess to his wife that he almost slept with another woman, and breaks down during his confession. 
Once Elizabeth takes her hands off her husband, God begins to work on their marriage and at the end of the movie, the husband pampers his wife via a sundae and foot rub. Prayer changes things. I enjoyed War Room, and plan on seeing it again.

Aug 28, 2015

10th Anniversary Of Hurricane Katrina

When Hurricane Katrina made landfall on August 29, 2005, it wreaked havoc on the Gulf Coast from Florida Panhandle to Louisiana; most of the damage was concentrated from the MS Gulf Coast to Greater New Orleans. Damage was $108 billion, roughly 4x the damage wrought by Hurricane Andrew. Government officials were pointing fingers at each other, blaming each other for not being prepared for Katrina, residents ignored warnings from city, state & county officials to evacuate, etc. Nobody will forget about Katrina, even those who aren't from New Orleans or the Gulf Coast. New Orleans has come a long way, but there are houses still standing from flood damage; water covered to the roof. Uptown, Central Business District and French Quarter avoided the worst of Katrina because they were built on higher ground, it was the inner-city of New Orleans that was hit hard. The housing projects were flood-damaged beyond repair, so they were torn down (not only because of flood damage, but age and being notoriously violent) and rebuilt.
New Orleans' violent crime issue has made national headlines as the city retains its title as Murder Capital of America, with a murder rate 10 times the national average. Reasons for this are poverty & drugs, and a terrible public school system. Before Katrina, New Orleans murder rate escalated to 10x the national average. New Orleans was on pace to record 300+ murders if Katrina wouldn't have hit. Post-Katrina, New Orleans' murder rate declined by 80% while the crime rate escalated in Houston, Dallas, Atlanta and Baton Rouge. Houston suffered the worst of New Orleans' criminal element as the city recorded 375 murders in the year following Katrina. New Orleans & Houston goons clashed for street supremacy. Houston ghetto criminals fought to protect their drug turf, and New Orleans criminals tried to take over new territory. It's interesting that while New Orleans' crime rate dropped, it increased in other cities that took in evacuees.
In my view, most of the blame goes on residents for ignoring warnings from government officials to evacuate. A lot of residents assumed that because they survived Betsy and previous storms for years, they could handle Katrina. Katrina showed them what time it was when she ravaged New Orleans. 80% of Greater New Orleans was flooded. People who could afford to leave, did. Those who couldn't afford, had to do the best they could to survive Katrina. Regardless, even the most destitute of citizens had plenty opportunities to leave New Orleans, but because of their disobedience, they paid the price.
My heart goes out to New Orleans because it will never be the same. When I visited New Orleans a couple weeks ago, I thought to myself "Katrina ravaged this city 10 years ago." Many of them relocated to Houston, Dallas, Atlanta, etc. because they didn't want to run the risk of another storm. I don't blame them. Many times, having a way out involves relocating elsewhere for a better life. Many New Orleans natives still have love for their hometown (as they should), but a lot of them won't go back because in their eyes, there's nothing to go back to.

Aug 27, 2015

Gov't Economic Policy: Rick Nappier

One time for Rick Nappier for breaking down the economic climate as it relates to these shootings.
In a way, I blame all these shootings on government economic policy.
When jobs become scarce, people get nervous about their current work situation. They come to work thinking that today might be their last day because of layoffs, or being fired unjustifiably.
If they economy is booming, the worker has the advantage because they can leave for a better job, or leave for a higher salary. Not in this economy. Companies have the upper hand because they can work you like a dog because "where else are you going to work"?
The labor participation rate is down to 62%...the lowest since 1979. This means only 62% of the people available and willing to work can find employment. So hell yes, people are nervous about losing their jobs to layoff or getting fired.
When you lose your job, you are about 2-3 months from being homeless if you can't find other employment. The unemployment checks are about 70% of what you could not live on anyway.
Blacks, in particular, typically get the short straw when it comes to employment. Blacks don't own many companies. Unless it's state, federal or county employment, black people represent a small percentage of the private sector workforce. Many blacks don't network nor have colleagues in high places.
And in California, most blacks don't speak Spanish...so they are out of luck again with nothing in their favor. I remember an employee in Sacramento at a national bank was laid off because most of the clients sitting in the lobby were Hispanic and he didn't speak Spanish. So he was mostly emptying the trash and doing clerical duties from the work the Spanish speaking bank reps generated. He was laid off three months later sipping on a refill coffee at Starbucks. I said "what's up playa?". He said he got laid off because the big bank only wanted bilingual bank reps. I told him that he had better take some Rosetta Stone language courses.
So black people's mental state are on the fritz right now about their careers and livelihoods. I tell all black people that they had better start their own businesses so they can stay above the fray or you will become a likely, unfortunate statistic.
In summary, a booming economy causes less work related stress and provides more employment opportunities.

Truthfully...

Truthfully, I'm tired of pro athletes getting in trouble for nonsense. These guys have fame & fortune, and still make poor decisions.
Truthfully, most churches are full of bums. 15-20% of church members are actively involved whereas the vast majority aren't doing nothing.
Truthfully, if blacks want commercial investment in their neighborhood, stamp out drugs & violence and commercial investment will come knocking. The only businesses that seem to thrive in black neighborhoods are low-income grocery stores, liquor stores, chicken joints, etc.
Truthfully, I can't wait for Tallahassee Centre to reopen. For those of you who aren't familiar, Tallahassee Mall is being converted into an outdoor lifestyle center.
Truthfully, War Room is going to be the best Christian movie I've seen in a while. It gives new meaning to fighting for a marriage.
Truthfully, if you're not trying to help someone who's struggling, do me a favor and shut up because some folks love to have their mouths running and they're not saying nothing.
Truthfully, it's inexcusable for any able-bodied adult NOT to know how to cook. What are you going to do, survive by eating out 24-7? Stop being lazy.
Truthfully, some inner-city single mothers need to cut the crap. She's dressed from head to toe, but her kids look a mess, shakes head. Both mom and kid should look fly together.

Aug 26, 2015

ICYMI: Controlling Husband | Steve Harvey in the Morning on WDAS


This lady feels like she has no say in her marriage. The husband works & is involved with his children. The wife says he's controlling because he makes all the decisions in the household. Isn't that what the head of household does? Maybe he doesn't trust her decision-making ability so he has to make all the decisions. Even if she has good input, the man makes the final decision. She should be grateful she has an involved husband, because some men aren't. Either they aren't around to guide their family, or some men would rather defer the decision making to their wives. Just because she doesn't have a say in the marriage doesn't mean the boys will grow up dogging women or the girls being shown that they don't matter. When she says her husband is controlling, she really means he won't let her do what she wants without accountability.

Strawberry Letter: Open Marriage

Dear Shirley Strawberry and Steve, 
I am a successful, mature, 24 year old woman with a very optimistic view on life. Some have used the words naive to describe my personality, however I disagree. I am open to the idea of having an open (minus the introduction of other men) marriage. We have rules set in place, no men, no sleepovers, no double takes, and we always protect ourselves. With all this said, is it naive of me to think that an open or sexually free relationship will work? I believe that it can, due to the fact that for some couples it can be a fun and exciting experience. For some, it may bring a couple closer together or give them the sexually satisfying life that they BOTH want and need. Help me to understand if what it is I am doing is wrong for others to disagree so much so with the decisions I have and will continue to make. Personally, I will not live my life based on others opinions but I would like the opinion of a neutral, third (and maybe fourth) party. Thank you for all your comments and advice. 
One thing about these Strawberry Letters is whenever the writers ask for advice, they always get what they ask for. This letter is no different, so with that said, here goes. Naive isn't the word I'd use to describe her desire for an open marriage, more like foolish. First, she's out of her ever-loving mind to think an open marriage is going to work. I say that because open marriages allow for infidelity to destroy a marriage. You and your spouse are sexing someone else, and feelings are bound to develop for someone else. When it comes to open marriages, there are no rules. It's easy to see what she's doing wrong; she's opening the door for infidelity. She obviously has no respect for her marriage if she's entertaining this foolishness. 
You can't say no (wo)men, no sleepovers, etc. because that defeats the purpose of an open marriage. If she's going to have an open marriage, throw all rules out the window. Marriage is ordained by God, a sacred bond between a man & woman to honor and cherish each other for life. I don't see how an open marriage could bring a couple closer together. On the contrary, open marriages would tear couples apart because one spouse may catch feelings for their sex partner and we know how that goes. Once is not enough, some folks want to keep pushing the envelope to see how far they can go.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🤦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.