Jul 30, 2015

Vision: Ray Lewis

This is a video clip of football legend Ray Lewis speaking about vision. God spoke through this man.

In Love With My Sister's Husband | Steve Harvey in the Morning on WDAS


It's bad enough they've shared men, but this woman is in love with her sister's husband and wants support? I suggest she have an arena of seats because she should know better. Husbands are off limits; that goes double for a man that's married to her sister. I don't care how crazy she may go, she needs to supress these feelings by any means necessary. We all know what happens when someone chooses to act on these kinds of feelings. The potential for hurt would be far too great, and she doesn't want that. I do have a theory as to why this woman is feeling her sister's husband: He's an excellent husband who makes her happy. He's supportive & loving, also ambitious. Those traits would make any man endearing to a woman. Regardless of how good a husband he may be to her sister, he's still off limits. There's nothing wrong with her having feelings, but it would be wrong if she acted on them. "I'm in love with him", cut the crap. She wants what she can't have, that's all it is.

Jul 29, 2015

Wisdom Tweets








Is It The Man's Fault

Someone posted a meme in one of my Facebook groups that asked, "If A Woman Cheats, Is It The Man's Fault?" Let me drop this bomb: It is never a man's fault if a woman cheats. Regardless of the circumstances, someone should never drive you to cheat on your spouse. I don't care if they slept with your best friend or aunt/cousin, there's no excuse for cheating. When someone cheats, they make that choice on their own, nobody made it for them. A group member was like "A man is at fault for a woman's cheating because he drove her to cheat based on his mistreatment of her" I shook my head because this person is big on accountability, and for her to come out her mouth like that is stupid. I would have kept that to myself because she made herself look crazy with that statement. If someone "makes" you cheat, they have power over you. I refuse to give anyone my power. If I cheat, it had nothing to do with my woman; that's on me. Some people preach accountability, but when it comes time to be held accountable, deflection is a given. A woman can be dead wrong for cheating, but she will find a reason to deflect to him. He's never there for me, the other guy made me feel loved, you work too much, and a list of other excuses. For women to be supposedly smarter than men, they don't act like it sometimes. Deflection is not a good look on anyone, man or woman. If a woman cheats, own it. Blaming the man for what she chose to do speaks volumes about her character.

Jul 28, 2015

Broke Folks With Rich Attitudes


The concept of this tweet is for broke folks to stop trying to live above their means. There's nothing worse than a broke person adopting a rich attitude who spends money (s)he doesn't have, that's crazy to me. You're trying to keep up with the Joneses because you see the 8-room house, and the 4 luxury cars in the driveway. What that person doesn't realize about keeping up with the Jones' is two things: 1. The Jones' could be drowning in debt trying to keep up their image. Mr. Jones makes $15 an hour, but his wife doesn't work. He's killing himself to live in a rich neighborhood on what's considered a middle-class salary. 2. The Jones' could be debt free so they can afford to live the "good" life. The husband and wife are top executives at a major corporation, and they have multiple incomes, growing investment accounts, kids in private school, etc. In that instance, the Jones' can afford to live in the best hood possible so their child(ren) can have the best. It's ok to be broke and adopt a rich attitude if you're trying to increase your finances. That's understandable because if someone is broke and they want to increase their cash flow, it would make sense to adopt a rich attitude. Having a rich attitude goes into how you value money; you make your money work for YOU. Sometimes, you have to take a lesser job and come up off that. Use that "lesser" job as a stepping stone to something greater. That builds humility because you're being taught how to be faithful in little. The Bible states you're blessed with greater if you're faithful with least.

You Can Have Sunshine Without Rain


Everyone's familiar with the phrase "You can't have sunshine without rain" In other words, you can't have good times without bad. Because we live in a fallen, sinful world, this is the unfortunate reality. At the same time, we have the power of choice. We have a choice to give or be selfish, spend or save, follow God or Satan, etc. You gain so much more when you give, because you never know when someone will return the favor. You could be in need one day, and someone remembers how you came through for them so they help you out. That's an example of having sunshine without the rain. If you decided to be selfish, you could have said no. The person could do one of two things: 1. Help you out of the goodness of their heart. 2. Help you anyway, but tell you not to come to them for anything else. Here's the catch: They would be within their right to refuse assistance because you didn't help them or someone similar. Because we have free will, that gives us power to create our own sunshine & rain. We can choose to have a sunshine filled life, or we can have a life full of rain, the choice is ours (for the most part.). Again, because we live in a fallen world, situations out of our control will come upon us. Nothing we can do about it, but take life as is daily. I don't know about anyone else, but I'm determined to create my own sunshine in life. I've had too much rain to want anything else. Rain can also be good because it washes away those impurities in our lives so we can shine brighter than before.

Jul 27, 2015

Peep Game


I'm calling out these soap opera dudes because I've had enough of these dudes gossiping like women. First off, a man should NEVER participate in any kind of gossip because his manhood is suspect. Who raised some of these 2015 guys? I'm just curious because too many men are acting like women and women acting like men. Men need to learn how to stop running their mouths like women. Observe some stuff! Observation keeps you out of a lot of trouble because you're able to discern what you should(n't) do. I recall a time where someone asked me why is my life drama-free? My answer: I guide my life with discretion. If something doesn't concern me, I don't get involved. Most importantly, I observe. Observation tells you all you need to know about people, situations and places. These new age men wouldn't know about that; they run their mouths like water and wonder why they get jammed up. Just because you have information, doesn't mean you have to share it off-top. There are people who hang on every word; they pay close attention to what you're saying, just so they can have something to use against you at a later date. I can truly say that no one will ever have anything on me because I stay to myself for the most part. If I have to interact with people, I tell them what's necessary and keep it moving. That goes DOUBLE for some men involved in illegal activity because if you're doing dirt, it's always best to be as low-key as possible so as not to attract attention.

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🀦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.