Simp Or Die

 

Like the murder rate in Chicago, simping has risen to epic proportions. I've never seen so many men sell their soul for the approval of women. Men doing this & that for women that aren't interested in him, just so he can change her mind. Listen men, no matter how much you do for a woman, if she's not checking for you, SHE'S NOT CHECKING FOR YOU. It makes zero sense to give your best to a woman that won't reciprocate. That time is better spent on a woman who will reciprocate. The largest progenitor of simping is men who co-sign women's foolishness just to retain her favor. Have men lost their fortitude when it comes to women? See, back in the day, if a man's woman acted out of pocket, he would check her on the spot. She understood that she's a reflection of him, so the woman had extra pressure to represent him well. When a man is raised by a single mother, he doesn't have a strong man to teach him about manhood, so he grows up thinking it's okay to simp for women's approval, because that's all he's ever known growing up. Some women love simps, because they will advocate for their foolishness instead of checking & charging them. If a simp grows a pair and calls a spade, a spade, here comes the woman with the following rhetoric: You hate women, you have mother issues, some woman must have hurt you, you're gay, etc. So what does the simp do to avoid that? Tell her what she wants to hear. I've never seen so many men with no backbone in my life. I wish the stand-up black women would speak out along with black men, when it comes to calling out bad behavior instead of setting quiet, and letting brothers take the amount of the heat. The simps don't know how to roar because they have been neutered, and have fallen to the wishes of today's jezebels. I've noticed that the majority of men (simps) who co-sign women's foolishness are the main ones who have women friends. These men don't hang with fellow men because a man is quick to check another man if that guy is getting beside himself. Think about it, a simp wouldn't last 5 minutes with a thorough group of men that would chin-check him about his simp behavior. Today's man has no backbone when it comes to handling women. He will say any & everything just to gain her approval. With all this simping going on, it's Simp Or Die with some of these men.



Buses

Most single women have heard the adage "men are like buses, one comes every 5 minutes". The same argument can be made against women: Women are like buses, if one doesn't work out, there's another one around the corner. This analogy makes a lot of sense because there's much truth in both statements. Not every (wo)man is the same, so if one relationship doesn't work out, big deal. Oftentimes, a failed relationship is a blessing because God is preparing you for the RIGHT person: (S)he will compliment you and vice versa. I'll never understand why some (wo)men focus on THAT one person. True, you thought (s)he may have been "the one", but you should've prescreened them after a couple dates to figure out if (s)he's right for you. If not, the option remains to be friends or part ways. Additionally, a bus comes along quite often, you can choose to ride or to walk. If you choose to walk, you become weary because you're wondering when the next bus is going to come along. Then again, all buses are not meant for boarding because you don't know what you may board. You could board a bus of confusion, or you board a bus of Love & Happiness (you like the Al Green reference). The important thing to remember is use discernment when deciding on what bus to board. There's a time to get involved with a person the minute they present themselves, and there's a minute to wait for the next bus. It can be difficult at times, but the wait is worth it. Most times, the best things in life are worth waiting for.

Minimum Wage Protests

 

Let me say this, how much skill does it require to flip burgers, and make fries? Most of us worked a minimum wage job in high school and college. These jobs were seen as stepping stones to a better position. Some people make a career out of fast-food, and I'm not knocking them. I do believe the minimum wage should be raised to $9.50 an hour, $10 at the most; but raising the minimum wage to $15 is out of the question. Does anyone think the minimum wage is going to double to $15 an hour? I doubt that. You're talking $31,200 a year, which is more than what some people with college degrees make.

 



Stop This Nonsense

Mention men's issues, you get Amens and Hallelujahs; mention women's issues, and what do you get? Deflection, attitude, and the classic "you have mother issues, you hate women, some woman hurt you, you're gay, etc." rhetoric. It never fails. If you have a Facebook account, you can get real-time evidence of this by going into any group where men and women are having a heated discussion about the sexes. The problem is that women (I know I'm generalizing, but hear me out) aren't used to being held accountable for their transgressions. They get passes for any & everything, whereas it falls harder on the man. Look at the legal system; the legal system favors women because if a woman falls behind in child support, the judge shows mercy. If a man falls behind in child support, he's still expected to pay. He loses his license(s), certification(s), wages garnished, etc. When a man makes a valid point about the opposite gender, you'll get a few women who identify with a man's plight, but you'll get the majority of women opposing him in the form of deflection: Men do it too. Men may "do it too", but not to the degree of some women. To me, if a woman has to resort to ad hominems in order to shame a man, she already lost the argument. Deflection is her way of saving face because she knows she has no argument. She thinks that by shifting the focus off her, she's scot free. Little do some women realize that even if they deflect, the flaws are still there. This is one of the few times I hate that some women get special privileges. You have simps who co-sign these women's deflective behavior, all for her approval. No wonder women will continue using deflection, because they know a simp will be her Knight In Shining Armor. A woman's at fault? Here comes Captain Save 'Em to the rescue. They don't want to be held accountable for their mistake(s)? That's ok, deflect your way out of the situation. Some women aren't used to having their behinds checked, but it's a new day. You have men who aren't afraid to check a woman on her foolery, and care nothing about her being slighted. These deflective women are no match for strong men, because he's going to hold her accountable for her transgression(s). In closing, a woman would rather have her behind powdered, than being told like it is. Why? Because something a man says about her may be true.

Women Aren't Letting You Do What?

 

I was having a conversation with a Facebook friend, and we got to discussing relationships. One of the topics was why men tend to shift blame onto women when the relationship goes sour. Both points were made from my end and hers, and it was a good convo. One thing I can't stand is a man who blames women for his downfall. Most challenges we face in life, are of our own accord. When someone tells us to go left, we go right & vice versa. The only exception is the Adam & Eve story in the Bible, where Adam and Eve were given dominion over the entire Garden. They could eat from any tree except the Knowledge of Good & Evil. Eve allowed the serpent to deceive her into eating the apple. They tried to play it off, but God knew what they did. Adam tried to blame Eve for making him eat the forbidden fruit. I'm paraphrasing what Adam told God, when he asked why did you eat the fruit. Adam: God, that woman you gave to me, she took the first bite, and I did too. Eve got the worst of the punishment. Adam wasn't off the hook either, because God came down on him. This story is testament to how some men act like they're powerless when it comes to women. They can't do such & such because of a woman, they need a woman's permission to be the man in a relationship. That's hilarious to me, because if I'm involved with a woman, I'm going to be the man with(out) her. I refuse to ask for my lady's permission to "be the man"; what do I look like? Last time I checked, I'm grown. I would hope she doesn't ask for my permission to be the woman. The next one is a gray area: Women say they want a man who's honest, but when he keeps it real with her, she can't accept it. He has a valid point when he tells her "Don't ask for the real, if you can't accept it". Their relationship is built on a lie, and it's nothing but turmoil. Ok...the smart person would tell the truth regardless of whether their mate accepts or not. It's no sweat off his/her back, because (s)he knows the truth, (s)he's just trying to help you out, by trying to enlighten you. If you don't want the truth, that's on you. A man who keeps it real with his woman would tell her: I'm going to be honest, regardless of whether you accept the truth or not. If you want to bounce, go right ahead. I refuse to lie to you to spare your feelings (you can do this without being a jerk). I just can't stand men who feel like they can't do/be anything without a woman's permission. You don't see women looking to men for approval. I rest my case.

Confused: By Lotus (How To Be A Woman)

 

How to Be a Woman

August 28 via mobile

CONFUSED

Ladies,

Don't blame him because you confuse no good men with quality men and jokers with Kings and peons with men of nobility.
Don't blame him because you confuse simps with strong men and little boys with grown men.
Don't blame him because you confuse disrespect with reverence and sex with love and contempt with admiration.
Because neglect is not concern, indifference is not compassion and disregard is not respect.
You must take responsibility for your choices. You will never be able to identify the exceptional if you can't even recognize the inferior. Confusion is for commoners. Clarification is for Queens.

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Keep Pressing In: By Tanya Ware

 

In Scripture, there was a lady who had been sick with a bleeding disorder for twelve years. She went to the best doctors, received the finest treatment, but her health continued to decline. One day, she got word that Jesus was coming through her town. When she heard that, something came alive on the inside. She had so much coming against her, but she didn’t focus on that; she knew it was her time for healing. Instead of giving up, she fought her way through the crowds and touched the edge of Jesus’ robe. When she did, immediately she was made whole.
 I wonder how many other people were there like her in that same type of situation. They were sick. They were discouraged. They had trouble. But they just watched Jesus pass by. They let excuses keep them from their miracle. Friend, don’t let that be you. Don’t let your circumstances keep you from reaching out to Jesus. It doesn’t matter what’s happened in your past, just keep moving forward. God has destiny moments in store for you. Keep pressing in, keep believing, keep praying and, like this woman, reach out to Him. Know that He is faithful, and He will meet your faith with His power.