Daddy's Girl(s)? Have Several Seats.

Let it be known that I'm annoyed at some women who refer to themselves as Daddy's Girl(s). Really? That's a red flag because to me, that shows she can't think for herself. She has to run to Dad for everything. See, men wouldn't get down like this because it's expected for a man to be able to stand on his own. So why should women get a pass? Doesn't make sense. When I think of the term Daddy's Girl, I think of an attached woman that measures her future husband by her father. If he was a wonderful husband, she seeks that in her future husband. If he's sorry, well..you know the rest. Just like women frown upon mama's boys, men should frown upon women who refer to themselves as Daddy's Girl. Grow Up ladies, seriously. After a certain age, you should be able to choose for yourself the kind of man you want, INDEPENDENT of your father. Some women pride themselves on being independent, but you wouldn't know it since they refer to themselves as a Daddy's Girl. Should I meet a woman who refers to herself as Daddy's Girl, she WILL NOT receive further consideration from me. I understand if a woman had a wonderful father, but once she grows up, she should be able to discern for herself what a good man is. Some women are always saying how independent they are, well here's their chance to prove it: From here on out, a woman IS NOT to compare her future husband to her father, even if her pops was an excellent provider & parent. It's borderline incestuous to hear a woman paint herself as Daddy's Girl. To me, that signals some sexual activity going on (yes, dads and daughters do have sexual relationships in this sick world). Make it so bad, some women glorify being a Daddy's Girl. Ma'am, being a Daddy's Girl is not a good look for you or your future husband. That tells your man you aren't independent enough to choose a good man for yourself, so you need your father to be your measuring stick. If men are expected to leave father & mother, and cling to their wife, the same applies to women.

Keep It Classy: By Lotus (How To Be A Woman)

I like my women classy, not showing all the booty.

 

How to Be a Woman

KEEP IT CLASSY

Ladies,

Summertime is upon us, and the summer wardrobe is in effect. While we are dressing for the weather, we still need to be mindful to leave something to the imagination. We can't expect for men to approach us like the ladies that we are if we are portraying an image less than that. Ladies look like ladies. We can still be sexy and beautiful without showing everything God gave us. True enough, sometimes, you can't judge a book by its cover. But, if the cover of the book is a hot mess and shows him everything from the outside, why would he want to waste his time opening up the book to find out what's inside? Also, please dress appropriately for your body type, meaning the body you have NOW, not the body you want LATER. If you're not where you want to be physically, be encouraged, because hard work will get you there. What you look like in relation to your attire, is a direct indicator of how you feel about yourself on the inside. Some crave attention and dressing scantily is how they get it. But, all attention is not good attention. I have never understood how a woman can walk around half-naked and then get upset when a man steps to her disrespectfully. Respect yourself first. Ultimately, your style and attire is your decision. All I'm saying is, let's keep it classy. Because everything is not for everybody. S/N: Those that protest about this post, just might be the guilty ones.

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Getting Upset When It Rains: By Lotus (How To Be A Woman)

Introduction: Some women will blame the moon, stars, and the sun for some of their poor choices. It never ends. Excuses have excuses.

 

How to Be a Woman

***CAUTION: HARD HITTER AHEAD - PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK***

UNDERSTATEMENT

Ladies, 
 You can't create your own storm, and then get mad when it rains. Accountability is severely lacking. We have made choices that have led us to the sad, current state of affairs that we are in. It's always, "What about the men"? "Look what they're doing." "They are no good." I say, what about the women? Look what we are doing, or not doing? We make "no good" choices and then want to wash our hands of all responsibility. We should be ashamed. Women have no self-respect anymore. Some will do anything for a dollar. They share their body with the devil himself as they lay down their dignity, only to rise with disdain. They exit the house and face the world, looking like they just rolled out of bed, with head scarves and pajamas their choice of attire. They use their children as bargaining chips, and as a means to get a check. Instead of raising their standards and raising their children, they choose to decrease their value and diminish their worth. Ethics and morals seem to be a thing of the past. Partying takes precedence over being an active, responsible parent. Our little ones are more familiar with curse words than spelling words. I could go on, but I won't. I am truly saddened by what we have become, and I weep for our babies. A sad state of affairs? Please. That's the understatement of the year.

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Pledge Of Allegiance: Lotus (How To Be A Woman)

Introduction: As usual, the lovely ladies of How To Be A Woman drop another hit. This one is about loyalty. The reason why some women have issue with loyalty, is because they are loyal to the wrong men.

 

How to Be a Woman

PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE

Ladies,

Loyalty is everything. Dedication to your man creates an unbreakable bond. Relationships must be based on mutual devotion and respect. We are all familiar with what allegiance means. But, sometimes our loyalty is misplaced. We have loyalty to our careers and our girlfriends. Some of us have more loyalty to our hairstylists than we do to our own man. Constantly breaking up over minor issues is not a display of loyalty. Professing your love publicly but flirting in your inbox with other men is not dedication. If you feel like the man you are with is not worth your loyalty for whatever reason, it's time for a re-assessment of you. Could it be that you attracted someone not "worthy" of your loyalty, because your actions don't make you worthy of any either? Make that promise. Dedication to your man makes you all the more attractive. If you can't pledge your allegiance, you're a waste of each other's time.

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Wake-Up Call To Men: Stop Simping Movement

If THIS doesn't light a fire under men's behinds, I don't know what will.

 

STOP Simping Movement
Men of today will put up with anything from brawds because they don't have 'any' standards.

They will put up with anything from women, attitude and all. Women are out of pocket today because men have no standards. They (men) do not have a set of standards they adhere to, they flip-flopping game goofy sons a bitches.

And this is usually what a tender dick puts up with to get laid.

I hear and see women say and type all the time 'that a man must PROVE he's a man before she treats him with any kind of treatment like RESPECT.

And it's usually like that because men put up with bullshit attitudes from women. I'll be DAMNED, if a woman ain't coming with 100% cooperation.

I've had it, I get it, I REFUSE to deal with lower caliber women that cannot bring what I require to the table (QUALITY). Most men think they are lucky because they got a bitch, FUCK THAT!! I've had cooperation and I HAVE cooperation from women. My mindset is I've had it before, I can get it again which I do, I can and I will. I can get better than a bitch with an attitude. I do not deal with women who make my life difficult, and there are women who like to be difficult. I had a woman once tell me "I hope you have money to go with those high demands you make when trying to get women" it's high demands to a bitch who can't MEET my standards and are BELOW me. My standards are high to those who cannot reach out to me and touch me, those who cannot get with or at me. Unlike some people who have OVER EXAGGERATED STANDARDS; I've actually HAD and HAVE what I require from women, most people make standards and they've never had what they are demanding. My standards, that is how I roll, It's how I get down.

Most men THINK having women come at them with half ass cooperation is normal, because that's what they are use to, that's what they are use to putting up with.

When a woman says a man must first show her (whatever she deems worthy of man title) That's a sign she's going to be difficult. A man shouldn't have to prove shit, who the fuck is she?

What the hell do these females think this is?

Coaches do not put players in play that don't submit to them, SO WHY SHOULD A MAN SHOW A WOMAN WHO IS ALREADY GIVING HIM A HARD TIME THAT HE IS A STATE CHAMPION?
She's not even acting like a team player, or like she wants to be drafted.

Generals do not lead armies of rebellious soldiers into the field of battle, knowing it will up the chance they'll lose with an idiot in the ranks, so why should a man show a woman anything, IF SHE CAN'T STAND AT ABOUT FACE AND TAKE ORDERS LIKE A GOOD SOLDIER?
Pack your bags, go home, we do not need you.

STANDARDS, that's what I'm talking about, GET SOME!!! If women aren't showing you respect and cooperation up front, do not bother with them. -SSM.



Showing Your (Wo)man love: Dahila of How To Be A Woman

Fellas, it's not simpish to treat your lady. It's okay to buy her something nice, take her out to eat and take her to get her nails done, but only if she deserves it. If you're with a woman that treats you badly, you shouldn't even treat her to a Happy Meal. You should treat her with a charge to the game. But, if it's your woman and she's good to you, there's nothing wrong with treating her to something. Granted, you don't have to buy her flowers everyday, that's excessive. But if she likes a pair of shoes at Aldo's and you get it for her, don't think that you're a simp. You should want your woman to always look good and on point. Your woman should match your sexy. What man wants to look like he stepped off of GQ Magazine and his lady looks like she stepped off of National Geographic? Seriously, no man wants this.

If she's a real woman and she treats you like a king, return the favor. After all, she's your queen and she didn't get on that throne with you without work. She worked to get herself to a level to be with a man on a high level. So, treat her as good as she treats you. If you don't know what to get her, the Victoria Secret Semi Annual Sale starts next week. That's a treat for her and you. Treating your lady doesn't make you a simp, it makes you a king that's proud to have a great woman on his arm that is worth treating like a queen.

~Dahlia



The Friend Zone: By Dahlia (How To Be A Woman)

Intro: Dahlia (How To Be A Woman) puts men on blast about the Friend Zone. Read On

 

Fellas, I want to talk to you guys for a moment. Never allow yourself to be put in the friend zone, ever. I don't care what Guy Code or what simp books say, don't you dare let yourself be put in the friend zone. Women do not respect a man in that zone.

When a women puts you in that category, she wants the most benefits from you without having to commit to you or sleep with you. Typically if she puts you in that zone, she's talking to another man, she's in a relationship, she's using you to boost her ego, she's using you to trick your money to her and/or she views you as a "brother". Women, for the most part, do not respect 3 types of men: men who aren't dominate and don't lead, men who are simps and men in the friend zone. Don't wait for her to change her mind, because she really won't and don't simp to her, she'll use you to boost her ego and get free things from you. Women like to work for their men, because things you work for have value. If she doesn't have to work for you, she doesn't value you, so why should you be her man?

If she puts you in the friend zone, switch your game up! Become distant and unavailable. If she wants you to buy her something or take her out, make it seem like you don't have anytime for her. Tell her you're going on a date or your with hitting a spot with many beautiful women (not a strip club), even if you aren't. Also, holler at her friends and watch her switch her game up. If you talk to her friends, her ego will be frazzled because you were bold enough do it. And women like competition. Sometimes, women don't see a man as worth it unless he has other women around him. Or, just charge her to the game. Move onto women that are worth your time. You must never allow a woman to compromise your manhood. Value yourself as a man. You have to believe that you are worth something greater than the damn friend zone. Put yourself on and move onto bigger and better opportunities. Deal with women who will value your worth, your game and your masculine energy. If she doesn't, charge it!

The friend zone is the twilight zone, just a ball of confusion. You get what you allow. Value yourself, get out of that situation and move onto something worthwhile. Fellas, real men strive for the best, so don't lower yourself to the friend zone. Always value yourself as a man.

~ Dahlia ♥