Intro: Dahlia (How To Be A Woman) puts men on blast about the Friend Zone. Read On
Fellas, I want to talk to you guys for a moment. Never allow yourself to be put in the friend zone, ever. I don't care what Guy Code or what simp books say, don't you dare let yourself be put in the friend zone. Women do not respect a man in that zone.
When a women puts you in that category, she wants the most benefits from you without having to commit to you or sleep with you. Typically if she puts you in that zone, she's talking to another man, she's in a relationship, she's using you to boost her ego, she's using you to trick your money to her and/or she views you as a "brother". Women, for the most part, do not respect 3 types of men: men who aren't dominate and don't lead, men who are simps and men in the friend zone. Don't wait for her to change her mind, because she really won't and don't simp to her, she'll use you to boost her ego and get free things from you. Women like to work for their men, because things you work for have value. If she doesn't have to work for you, she doesn't value you, so why should you be her man?
If she puts you in the friend zone, switch your game up! Become distant and unavailable. If she wants you to buy her something or take her out, make it seem like you don't have anytime for her. Tell her you're going on a date or your with hitting a spot with many beautiful women (not a strip club), even if you aren't. Also, holler at her friends and watch her switch her game up. If you talk to her friends, her ego will be frazzled because you were bold enough do it. And women like competition. Sometimes, women don't see a man as worth it unless he has other women around him. Or, just charge her to the game. Move onto women that are worth your time. You must never allow a woman to compromise your manhood. Value yourself as a man. You have to believe that you are worth something greater than the damn friend zone. Put yourself on and move onto bigger and better opportunities. Deal with women who will value your worth, your game and your masculine energy. If she doesn't, charge it!
The friend zone is the twilight zone, just a ball of confusion. You get what you allow. Value yourself, get out of that situation and move onto something worthwhile. Fellas, real men strive for the best, so don't lower yourself to the friend zone. Always value yourself as a man.
~ Dahlia ♥
When a women puts you in that category, she wants the most benefits from you without having to commit to you or sleep with you. Typically if she puts you in that zone, she's talking to another man, she's in a relationship, she's using you to boost her ego, she's using you to trick your money to her and/or she views you as a "brother". Women, for the most part, do not respect 3 types of men: men who aren't dominate and don't lead, men who are simps and men in the friend zone. Don't wait for her to change her mind, because she really won't and don't simp to her, she'll use you to boost her ego and get free things from you. Women like to work for their men, because things you work for have value. If she doesn't have to work for you, she doesn't value you, so why should you be her man?
If she puts you in the friend zone, switch your game up! Become distant and unavailable. If she wants you to buy her something or take her out, make it seem like you don't have anytime for her. Tell her you're going on a date or your with hitting a spot with many beautiful women (not a strip club), even if you aren't. Also, holler at her friends and watch her switch her game up. If you talk to her friends, her ego will be frazzled because you were bold enough do it. And women like competition. Sometimes, women don't see a man as worth it unless he has other women around him. Or, just charge her to the game. Move onto women that are worth your time. You must never allow a woman to compromise your manhood. Value yourself as a man. You have to believe that you are worth something greater than the damn friend zone. Put yourself on and move onto bigger and better opportunities. Deal with women who will value your worth, your game and your masculine energy. If she doesn't, charge it!
The friend zone is the twilight zone, just a ball of confusion. You get what you allow. Value yourself, get out of that situation and move onto something worthwhile. Fellas, real men strive for the best, so don't lower yourself to the friend zone. Always value yourself as a man.
~ Dahlia ♥
"Also, holler at her friends and watch her switch her game up. If you talk to her friends, her ego will be frazzled because you were bold enough do it. And women like competition. Sometimes, women don't see a man as worth it unless he has other women around him."
ReplyDeleteThat statement I completely disagree with and this will get you CUT OFF - out of her way and out of her life. The only women who will continue speaking with you after trying to get at her friend are DRAMA QUEENS. If that is not the type of woman you want to attract - run from that garbage advice right there.
However, I do agree with many other parts of this article and the types of *men* that women do *not respect* for sure. Women, even the most "independent" ones, adore a man who is a LEADER...a man who is confident and secure in himself, his decisions, and his appeal. This is true!!! I just *hate* though, how many men assume that this means all women want a THUG. This is WRONG - women want to be adored, respected and treasured by a GOOD MAN. The problem comes when the good men or men who fall "in the middle" don't step up. You, Richard, for example. You are a good man (not a typical "nice guy") but a quality man. Right?? But I *know* that you aren't out here approaching these women or giving them signs that you may be interested in them. There are many good men out there like yourself, who are doing this. And you, and these women out here, are MISSING OUT.
That leaves women to choose between either: The "Simp" Nice Guy OR The Thug. And because a woman is wired to gravitate towards *strength*, she chooses THE THUG by default until the Good Guy kicks him out of the way and TAKES HER.
This is why Friend Zones exist. Men have categories for us also.
That's just my two cents.
~Omari~
I see value in this article, and in your response Omari. If I'm a good man (which I am), and I'm checking for a good woman, I will approach her. I will not give the next guy a chance to shine with a quality woman. You can't deny that women who put men in the friend zone do use him as a sounding board. So, I'm the guy you confide in, tell your secrets to, 9 times out of 10, I will want something more.
DeleteAs Miss Lady said in the article...FIGHT your way out of that friend zone like your life depends on it. Claim your territory. It will turn her ON!
ReplyDeleteBut NOOO...do not go after her friends. Do not play games. That is not the correct way to go about it.
Lastly, make sure that this *woman* is worth the effort. Some men put the *wrong* women on pedestals. TruthDotCom!
~Omari~
I know that, but most men don't. Truth be told, I go hard for what I value.
DeleteAnd I believe you, sir Richard. *strokes your back* haa
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