By FB standards, this post went viral (200 comments and counting). This thread ties into what I've said before: Respect is dictated by finances. If a man pays all the bills, his woman will respect him. If she goes half, she'll give him half respect or none at all. In the eyes of many women, all men are good for is provision. What if the man becomes disabled & can't provide like he used to, is he still worthy of respect? That's the question many women avoid like the plague. It's mindsets like this that are the reason why I'm glad I'm single. I refuse to break myself down to take care of a lazy woman (I refer to lazy women as those who expect the man to do 100% while she does 0%. These same women like to use the Bible to dictate men's role, but want to call themselves a Proverbs 31 woman😄). Some of the blame falls on men because men with means offer to take care of women with lesser means. She becomes accustomed to the lifestyle and God forbid the relationship ends, then she's looking for the next man to pick up where her ex left off. This rhetoric would cease if men & women dated on their level: Men, look for women to build with and vice versa for women.
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